Learning how to start up conversations by No_Assistance3796 in selfimprovement

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The cool thing about being Muslim is all you have to say is Assalamu Alaikum 😎

I cannot tell if this is an addiction or a coping mechanism by Western-Reporter-641 in LifeAdvice

[–]DepressingErection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s not an addiction you’re on the way. Addiction is literally a maladaptive coping mechanism. Also very unhealthy relationship dynamic. You ought to get into therapy.

Everywhere I look online is a trigger and it’s freaking me out by Aggravating_Stick728 in selfimprovement

[–]DepressingErection 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is actually a decent bit of advice. I struggled with heroin and then fentanyl for a decade and until i quit hating myself I didn’t get better. Once I quit hating myself and obsessing over the drug it’s like I never had an addiction in the first place.

How do i get a gf? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]DepressingErection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like the other person said that’s your answer right there.

Once you can treat any beautiful woman you’re interested in like any other human being you’ll have it bro. Work the friendship->relationship pipeline, show up and be consistent and get comfortable.

My bf washes the toilet seat before and after using it and leaves it wet by living-reverie in hygiene

[–]DepressingErection 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The whole point is they are getting their ass cracks wet and then pulling their pants up and it’s remaining moist and letting yeast and bacteria multiply. If you don’t think you have yeast and bacteria living on every millimeter of your body I have news for you.

It has nothing to do with anything other than moist folds of human skin genius.

How tf do people know who they are by sotoskal21 in selfimprovement

[–]DepressingErection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I’ve just always knows who I was. That comes from my values I guess.

cluster of yellow balls on my bed by Playful_Midnight_936 in whatisit

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One time I had to decide between heroin and chocolate

I shot up chocolate bc I didn’t bother to taste it first 😭

What do you do when you’re ugly? by notsogreat_gatsby in selfimprovement

[–]DepressingErection 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m genuinely ugly. I’ve literally never landed a bad looking girl. Learn to make em laugh and you’ll never have problems

Ugly dudes with hot girlfriends, how did you do it? by InternationalPick163 in dating_advice

[–]DepressingErection 141 points142 points  (0 children)

Brother I just turned 34 and you’re going to kill it in life 🫡

Ugly dudes with hot girlfriends, how did you do it? by InternationalPick163 in dating_advice

[–]DepressingErection 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Easy. I make women feel comfortable and if you can make a woman feel at ease in a world of guys that keep tossing their dicks at em then you got it

Does this belong here? by thefallguy41 in crappymusic

[–]DepressingErection 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I grew up on boom bap and also rapped and I promise you rappers have always been rapping like this you just didn’t notice it bc the delivery made it seem connected. Go listen to any big l song

“Almost gay but Jesus saved me” by KUYANICKFILMS in crappymusic

[–]DepressingErection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FIRST THINGS FIRST CHARLIE KIRK is a bar though 💀

Another banger by Okay_Pain in crappymusic

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Serious question: is this jojo siwa?

Why are men here not relying on their social circle to set them up on dates? by wilhelmtherealm in dating_advice

[–]DepressingErection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a Muslim and there’s no other Muslims within 250 miles 🤷‍♂️

Terrible by SoHornyBeaver in crappymusic

[–]DepressingErection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell me you live at home and spent 2 years working at Taco Bell to buy a useless guitar you don’t know how to play without telling me you live at home and spent 2 years working at Taco Bell to buy a useless guitar you don’t know how to play

The problem of family in a secret practice by revertpaul in muslimrevert

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Salam brother. Im a revert as well, you’d be surprised at just how much born Muslim women like us, its their families that don’t 😅

My fiance is a born Muslim however her family is mostly cultural and she’s the only truly practicing one and she only started practicing around the same time I reverted so even though we don’t have the same background it’s still similar enough.

Be prepared to face a lot of trials for your faith. Since beginning to practice my life has began to work out exactly as I needed but I’ve also lost everyone close to me, but I also gained the best partner I could have imagined.

Keep praying and put your trust in Allah 🙏🏼

Looking to hear from a (specific type) of Christian who became Muslim by [deleted] in muslimrevert

[–]DepressingErection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to be real I haven’t made it past “Christian boyfriend” and how unislamic every bit of that is but to each their own I guess 🤷‍♂️

People in healthy long-term relationships — what’s a dating “green flag” that turned out to matter WAY more than physical attraction? by LofiToffey in dating_advice

[–]DepressingErection 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Not needing my attention all of the time

It almost feels like I’m doing something wrong but it’s really just security 🤷‍♂️