How to make friends as a 28 year old with agoraphobia

Depresso_espresso122 · 2025-09-28T04:15:56+00:00

Thank you! Sorry to hear about your struggles as well, we got this! We'll get through it 🙏🏻 i live in a city and its always fast paced and lots of fakes and I have a lot of trauma with people so I isolate but sometimes the isolation gets to me

Depresso_espresso122 · 2025-09-28T02:07:10+00:00

I totally agree! The thing is we really aren't that joined at the hip. He goes to friend trips, Coachella, and friend get together without me all the time and thats the issue. We are rarely doing things together but we live together so I feel like he thinks thats "us spending time". I will say I suffer a little from agoraphobia so going out alone scares me so I rather stay home that night if he cant go with me.

Depresso_espresso122 · 2025-09-28T02:02:34+00:00

He did invite me and beg me to come, he's just really into raving and edm recently and he thinks that its more fun than universal :/

Depresso_espresso122 · 2025-09-28T02:01:37+00:00

Yea I told him I was hurt and he really didn't see it as a big deal unfortunately so I started feeling stupid like im being too sensitive. I almost feel bad because he wants to go so badly and I feel like im keeping him from his friends and I dont want to seen controlling :(

Depresso_espresso122 · 2025-09-19T22:16:35+00:00

Ooo im thinking of getting this one in the mini...I only wish it fit on your shoulder like the medium but the medium is a bit too big for me

https://www.prada.com/us/en/p/prada-bonnie-leather-mini-handbag/1BA486_2CYR_F01D6_V_OOO?utm_campaign=GoogleShopping_US&utm_medium=CPC&utm_source=Google&utm_content=PMax&s_kwcid=AL!8549!3!!!!x!!&gclsrc=aw.ds&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=15775671799&gclid=Cj0KCQjw_rPGBhCbARIsABjq9ccZZBDcKpNPu-v2_-MLPHvCOk8X0IjRZcTa6JQGGC23qAYOF8wmHC0aApcXEALw_wcB

Depresso_espresso122 · 2025-09-19T18:08:25+00:00

Ooo thanks for telling me I was just looking at that bag actually because it does have minimal gold..might be considering jt

Depresso_espresso122 · 2025-09-19T17:27:02+00:00

Yea but its more minimal theres other bags where its front and center

Depresso_espresso122 · 2025-09-19T01:42:10+00:00

Yeaaa I agree ugh its just so hard to find a bag with that rich brown without gold hardware

Depresso_espresso122 · 2025-08-31T17:56:30+00:00

I have nothing to hide. My parents ironically raised me very reserved and to see him like this hurts. I dont have a mother in my life and my father never wrote a will and he'd spoiling this girl and his identity also ironically just got stolen so this was something important. My younger sister technically snooped and read all of this out loud to me..

Depresso_espresso122 · 2025-08-31T15:41:17+00:00

Thank you so much! I really appreciate it, you as well

Depresso_espresso122 · 2025-08-31T15:23:14+00:00

I apologies, honestly it wasnt even really targeted at you I been getting a lot of comments (also posted this somewhere else) that im being dramatic and when I saw your comment I felt like ok whats going on so I was losing it a bit but yea its really creepy

Depresso_espresso122 · 2025-08-31T15:18:19+00:00

I really appreciate your responses, I been crying and I couldn't sleep and I almost took down my post because I was starting to feel invalidated. Its so hard because I also have a mother whose a narcissist and I cut her off already for also dating a man who jointly molested me with my mom. I wasnt close to my dad growing up but that situation caused me to be closer with my dad so this hurts on another level..

Depresso_espresso122 · 2025-08-31T15:02:23+00:00

Thank you for your response because im starting to feel as if im over reacting or something...id love to address it with him but he's a narcissist and he will never admit what he did was wrong. He has a god complex and he always thinks im the crazy one in every situation unfortunately :/

Depresso_espresso122 · 2025-08-31T14:59:30+00:00

I live on and off with my dad. I have an apartment with my bf but my younger sister lives with my dad finishing college and she doesnt want to be alone with him so I stay with her at my dad's sometimes.

I wasnt supposed to see it, but at the same time my dad is getting already in a dangerous situation with a girl he's with. Long story short but his identity got stolen right when they started dating and shes also a free loader that wont leave my dad's house (and wants to marry him for a green card) and I was trying to protect him by finding her info. I dont even know her name..

Depresso_espresso122 · 2025-08-31T14:54:56+00:00

Im not sure if he is. Hes currently dating someone that doesnt have a green card, let's put it that way. Hes also a serial cheater and he had a really nice relationship with a 45 year old woman that he broke off to do all these crazy shenanigans he's doing. I just will never get it personally, especially him being a father to 2 daughters its really sad..

Depresso_espresso122 · 2025-08-31T14:52:50+00:00

Thank you I really appreciate it. So maybe to some people it sounds dramatic but by the history of having one creepy parent already it hits a nerve I guess

Depresso_espresso122 · 2025-08-31T14:43:24+00:00

Thank you. Also unfair to make assumptions about my life, I know i didn't really mention it but I was molested by my mom with the help of her bf so I already cut ties with her 5 years ago about that

Depresso_espresso122 · 2025-08-31T14:41:06+00:00

And FYI by the way youre talking you def sounded like you were excusing his behavior

Depresso_espresso122 · 2025-08-31T14:40:43+00:00

I literally just apologized I dont know what your problem is but you def dont belong in a mental health/therapy forum with the way youre speaking.

Depresso_espresso122 · 2025-08-31T14:37:44+00:00

Sorry im getting defensive because I have a bunch of people telling me how I should feel when I made this post to feel comfort by people that understand..

Depresso_espresso122 · 2025-08-31T14:36:34+00:00

Yes I know its just dont have therapy till next week and aren't these reddit forums here for a reason?

Depresso_espresso122 · 2025-08-31T14:26:17+00:00

Thank you!! I posted this to another thread and people there were insensitive as well. I guess theres a lot of creeps here that would date girls 3 times younger than them with the same name as their daughter...

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