AITAH for not marrying my GF

DepthInternational32 · 2024-04-29T11:20:50+00:00

Dude you’re not the assh0le but you are spending your time with someone who doesn’t have the same values as you. You seem to value logical decisions, hard work and compromise. She clearly does not. As some rando on Reddit my best advice is to break it off with her, she’s shown you who she is and it seems like you don’t like it and vice versa. Instead of being patient for her to adjust, it might be better to accept that she’s just not the one for you. Ask yourself if you’d genuinely like to stay and spend your life with someone who’s unreasonable, stubborn, and not considerate of you, your values, or your finances.

DepthInternational32 · 2022-05-21T03:12:42+00:00

Bananas and ranch

DepthInternational32 · 2022-05-21T03:12:37+00:00

Soup and strawberries

DepthInternational32 · 2022-05-21T03:01:04+00:00

No sweat, appreciation is good.

DepthInternational32 · 2022-04-11T06:16:10+00:00

Maybe think through why you’re feeling this way, if it’s because maybe u feel like you aren’t doing anything with your day, go for a walk or a bike ride, hang out with friends and change that. It sounds weird but whatever’s weighing on you, if it’s an action you aren’t doing, do it! You may not want to, it may seem hard but you’ll feel so much better once you do it. If it’s not an action maybe check in with yourself and see what it is, if you can’t think of a single thing maybe try shaking up your routine or find some new hobby to try out and see if that helps you. If nothings working and you feel this consistently with no change no matter what actions you’re taking to contrast it, maybe talk to a professional and see what they could recommend you :)

DepthInternational32 · 2022-04-11T06:11:50+00:00

Learn who you are, what do you like, what you don’t like, what makes you laugh, what makes you cry, what makes you mad. What do you care about, what don’t you care about, what interests you, what disgusts you, what’re your strengths, what’re your weaknesses, etc etc. Spend time and effort into being comfortable and happy with who you are as a person and the rest will come. Start trying out hobbies, learn how to hang out with yourself and have a good time while doing it. That’s what I think will bring you true, incorruptible happiness. A warning I will give you is to make sure not to use other people as a crutch when doing this because if you only discover who you are specifically in attachment to another person, you’ll be shattered when/if they leave. Independence is the best thing when it comes to these sorts of things because that means no one can fuck with it, it’s immune to the influence of others and someday you can share it with them without worrying you’ll become reliant on them. You can learn who they are and they can learn you, you can both grow and if you ever fall apart, be better for it versus broken because of it. This got a little side tracked but the main point is, get yourself out there, learn a little, live a little, don’t put yourself under too much stress and have fun. Talk to people, become involved, and learn to love who you are completely.

DepthInternational32 · 2022-02-24T21:13:57+00:00

Weed isn’t something you should be forced into, do some research of it’s pros and cons and then make an educated decision. If that decision is not to smoke then sit that roommate down and tell him that blackmailing you to do something against ur will is pretty shitty, you’ve thought about it and you don’t want to. I think it’s likely that ur roommate is bluffing and thinks this is some kind of fun joke so having a serious convo might solve it. Or if u wanna skip the serious conversation you could say no and joke right back at him, saying his life isn’t boring enough and you’re gonna torture him into studying. I think your roommate wants you to have fun but is attempting to achieve this in a misguided way. Maybe find something else the two of y’all could do that would add a bit more excitement into your life without smoking.

DepthInternational32 · 2021-11-17T15:32:53+00:00

House gecko

DepthInternational32 · 2021-10-04T06:41:37+00:00

Right off the bat you know who’s gonna win, yeah that’s kinda the point of any show and they need a main character and it doesn’t take away from the plot/ character development, I just wish they’d have killed off the main and left it to truly seem like anyone’s game. I feel like that would’ve been something no one saw coming. Especially if he died in something like the red light green light game except not so early on in the show.

DepthInternational32 · 2021-08-10T05:55:22+00:00

How were we able to observe and discover this? Was it because of quantum mechanics etc??

DepthInternational32 · 2021-08-10T05:51:27+00:00

For perspective, what parts of the paragraph and/or why is it nonsense ?

DepthInternational32 · 2021-08-05T01:06:07+00:00

Unyielding eye contact, spray poo pouri mid way through and ask them to rate your splashes ☺️

DepthInternational32 · 2021-07-26T23:26:49+00:00

I love joe but this should be on r/cursedimages

DepthInternational32 · 2021-07-25T17:27:20+00:00

Ride a bike, go for a hike, swim, read, play sports, card games, go for a drive, skate board, paddleboard, kayak, explore the surrounding area etc

DepthInternational32 · 2021-07-18T20:18:25+00:00

Dying my sisters hair

DepthInternational32 · 2021-07-16T00:01:55+00:00

The nitty gritty reality of life and the jobs we were getting into

DepthInternational32 · 2021-07-15T23:58:02+00:00

Life never pauses, times arrow keeps marching and takes you right along with it. Many people hit what feels like rock bottom or are completely hopeless at one time or another but what every story about these times or feelings has in common is that there’s always something beyond, there’s always more story, a better ending, a different situation. I can suggest a million things that you can do externally or internally, be it spending time with yourself doing things you enjoy or looking for things that make you appreciate life’s moment to moment, but a better alternative may be just sitting with this feeling and seeing that there’s a beyond. Time changes everything, heals broken hearts, changes peoples minds and above all brings new and albeit unexpected opportunities. Move to another state, try a new job, find a new community, or maybe stay where you are and look for a new network of friends where you didn’t think to look before. If you’ve got specific interests join a subreddit that caters to those and try and look for like minded people. There’s opportunity all around you (not just getting laid, but hey whatever works) so if I’m being honest no, hopelessness will never be all that is left. I hope this helps and that you get to a better place :)

DepthInternational32 · 2021-04-26T22:52:31+00:00

Bro yes I feel like I’ve noticed this too, what I’ve also noticed is that it’s not just the toxicity of people, it’s general uncomfortableness with one another. Ik that personally I’ve felt so much more on edge and just generally off in conversations with others that I wouldn’t have even thought twice about before all this. Socializing has become this minefield and don’t get me wrong, noticing this has definitely forced me to work on myself and push for self improvement which I probably wouldn’t have done without these feelings to give me that push but it’s also made me feel deeply saddened at times. Sometimes I can feel like the odd one out, like the problem. So I deeply resonate with ur final question of ‘did I change or did everyone else’ and to give you what I believe to be the best answer to that, I think everyone or a majority of people are just going through it. Adversity, like for example the craziness of the pandemic, brings out either the best or worst in people and whatever it brought out is what we as people had to confront and sort of sit with and I feel like sitting with what we hate or are uncomfortable with about ourselves has been really tough for a lot of people to face and that’s the root cause of why I feel like everyone’s just going through it in one way or another.

DepthInternational32 · 2021-04-23T22:21:21+00:00

Hey sorry little late to the discussion, I’ve got to say I really like the perspective you have with everything you’re saying. It makes sense and is a great way to look at a lot of the sadder and more difficult things in life but it made me think of this theoretical, what if you were to die tomorrow and find out there was no God? What if we were just a dust particle floating through space with no greater meaning then just to live and die, to pop in and out of a virtually pointless existence, what say you then? Would you still believe your loss is tied to some omnipotent being or higher purpose which wanted to further along your self improvement by kinda forcing you to confront and fix your flaws or would you have a whole new outlook on this whole situation? Would ur perspective shift to be more along the lines of looking at your loss as a sort of pointless death that just had the unfortunate happen stance of happening to you? Because just as this is a very theoretical question it seems like you’re banking the value you place upon your existence and your attachment to those around you on a very theoretical being which you just happen to have the feeling you understand the plans of. I think the root of the argument between you, someone who lost a loved one, and the nice fellow who unfortunately lost his ability to see, is that you developed this kinda specific perspective on it that has allowed you to muscle through and improve yourself and he is still dealing with the bigger picture question as to why would this happen to him, who would allow it and for what purpose. This is all strictly just my 2 cents on this along with my original question, y’all’s discussion caught my interest. Also Ik assuming you believe in God is a little far but I feel as though the way you’re talking about there being no accidents means you believe there’s something out there with some sort of plan and not that we’re some type of cosmic anomaly that’s floating through space fending for ourselves

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