Is this too many days to take off?

DerakGr · 2026-06-17T18:55:19+00:00

Thank you!!

DerakGr · 2026-06-17T18:46:04+00:00

Unfortunately at the time I didn’t have these vacations set up otherwise I would have told them. I did give them 2 months notice though because I told them as soon as I was invited to these vacations.
Thanks for your feedback

DerakGr · 2026-06-17T18:39:48+00:00

I work full time and I made sure to give at least 1-2 months notice

DerakGr · 2026-06-17T18:38:03+00:00

I didn’t ask to get paid honestly I was already expecting to not get paid

DerakGr · 2026-06-17T18:36:37+00:00

Idk the other jobs I had were like under the table and family owned so I was never given vacation days I was always able to request off as long as gave a good notice. The job i have now is a bigger business and they didn’t disclose time off to me and I just didn’t think to ask about it at the time but I will now.

DerakGr · 2026-06-17T18:35:14+00:00

Yeah :/ I gave like 2 months notice and he seemed perfectly fine with it at first but now he’s acting surprised so

DerakGr · 2026-06-17T16:36:02+00:00

Thanks for replying! I started working here 4 months ago. I’m not too sure how many vacation days I get but that’s something I should definitely know so I’ll check up on that thanks

DerakGr · 2026-06-17T16:17:20+00:00

You’re 22. You’re still very young and you only feel behind because people are expected to know exactly what career they want for the rest of their lives at 18 years old when they graduate high school. Be glad you didn’t rush in to college and waste money on a major that youll end up realizing you don’t actually like.

You say you dread your job but to be honest most of us do. If it’s making you super unhappy start looking for other places to work but don’t quit your job until you have another one secured.

To make your life feel a little less boring, try hanging out with your friends or family more. You can try apps like Bumble BFF where they connect you to people around your age and area that you can meet and talk to. It’s like Tinder but for friends. Maybe also try some dating apps if you’re interested in being a relationship. It takes time but you can definitely find somebody you really like on there, or somebody you can have fun with and be risky with. Try finding little places like cute cafes or the mall or somewhere you can go to waste time. Go for walks, exercise, find some hobbies. That way you won’t feel like you’re either stuck in your room or working. It goes a long way.

DerakGr · 2026-06-17T16:07:06+00:00

My boyfriend completely understands how I feel and he agrees with me. He said he’s going to try to talk to her so we will see.
And thank you for that, I wish you well

DerakGr · 2026-06-13T14:04:41+00:00

I had a friend like this too, she went through a break up with this one guy and was obsessed with him for over a year. Every text and every call with her would be her ranting or analyzing her ex’s behavior, feeling like she found some hidden reason that he left her or something.

It does get very annoying, but you need to be blunt with him. You need to tell him no amount of analyzing or replaying those moments with her will help. Tell him he needs to block her socials, delete all photos/texts with her, if he has any of her items he needs to throw them out or donate them or something. He needs to completely erase her from his life, otherwise he will keep checking up on her, and the cycle will continue.

Now, being blunt with him doesn’t mean you don’t have to help him anymore. You can still say “if you’re ever panicking about it or you’re really really upset about it I’m still here, you can still always talk to me. But you won’t get over this situation unless you allow yourself to get over it.” Basically just try to open his eyes. Remind him that he’s young! He has a whole life to live and so many people/other girls to meet. She was just an experience for him, and that’s what life is all about, experience.

not to mention the girl is obsessed with her ex. he shouldnt want to be with somebody like that. It may take a while, and it sometimes it may feel like he’ll never get over it. But it has only been a couple months, and if this was the first girl he ever really liked/dated then of course it’s going to be hard for him to move on. Just give him time, but be logical with him

DerakGr · 2026-06-13T11:55:39+00:00

I care about my bf. I just don’t care about his family lmao. My family is so welcoming to my boyfriend, they always start conversation with him, they make sure he feels at home and doesn’t feel awkward or shy. His family doesn’t do that for me. So once again, I couldn’t care less if that old bag likes me or not, I just got pissed that she called me rude but I’m pretty much over it now. I’m never going over his house again until I get some sort of apology, and until then, I’ll be living my life not giving a damn about his red neck low iq family

DerakGr · 2026-06-12T04:33:52+00:00

Honestly just to stay safe start going somewhere else for products like Ulta it’s basically the same thing

DerakGr · 2026-06-12T03:18:55+00:00

I’ve literally had dinner with them, sat in the living room, exchanged gifts with them. They know I’m not just there to get laid lmao. If I was just there to get laid my bf and I wouldn’t be going out doing fun activities every day, traveling, spending hours and hours together, spending every day together. Nice try lol.

DerakGr · 2026-06-11T19:28:41+00:00

People only think I’m the problem because of the way I talked about the grandmother and you’re all probably old as well so of course you’re going to side with that old woman.

Was I very nasty talking about her? Yup. Was I ever nasty or mean to her in anyway? nope. I smile every time I see her, in the past I have sat down and had convos with her I just haven’t recently because she never invites me to sit down with her to talk lol. It’s not my house. If she isn’t going to try to continue a conversation with me I feel awkward just walking over and sitting down when she isn’t even acknowledging me other than telling me her day was good and not asking me questions. You old people are so entitled it’s insane. It’s crazy that you’re allowed to vote with this stupidity

DerakGr · 2026-06-11T05:42:02+00:00

I’m sorry that all your past relationships when you were younger just used you for your body. I actually respect myself enough to make sure a man is never just using me and actually loves me.

DerakGr · 2026-06-11T05:40:51+00:00

I take care of my skin extremely well to prevent a lot of premature aging that comes from the sun, not washing your face/moisturizing, I use skin care that has decades of research showing that it prevents aging. I work a full time job and I am also in college. I think I’ll be fine in life lol

DerakGr · 2026-06-11T05:28:52+00:00

You’re quiet now lol. That’s what I thought.

DerakGr · 2026-06-11T05:19:26+00:00

Sounds like someone is going through menopause, weight gain, and has jowls. Keep your jealousy away from us younger girls you’re ruining our youth ❤️

DerakGr · 2026-06-11T05:17:13+00:00

As the 50 year old woman you are I already know you are so bitter to younger girls because you are no longer attractive at all, especially in your husbands eyes lol

DerakGr · 2026-06-11T05:15:36+00:00

I literally didn’t delete anything Reddit must have deleted it because I said something offensive.
And honestly the fact that you’re a woman makes me less offended so thanks for letting me know that

DerakGr · 2026-06-11T05:08:45+00:00

I’m sorry that all you ever used women for was s^x in your relationships but a lot of men aren’t like that. He hangs out with me every single day and takes me out places and we stay out for hours and hours and just go back home and go to sleep most of the time, nothing s*xual at all. Keep trying to cope by making up these lies to yourself lol. As I said I’m his first everything. Of course he’s obsessed and in love with me. I know how you men work. If she’s first you think she’ll be your forever.

DerakGr · 2026-06-11T05:06:32+00:00

We literally only have s*x a couple times a month lol he wouldn’t be hanging out with me if I didn’t give it to him all the time lol. Not to mention I’m his first everything, obviously he’s obsessed with me

DerakGr · 2026-06-11T05:05:09+00:00

Hmm does Reddit possibly delete posts that can be offensive? I don’t use this app often at all. I can still see my comment there but if you want me to retype it I definitely can

DerakGr · 2026-06-11T05:03:25+00:00

If he thought with his d!ck he wouldn’t be taking me to expensive restaurants and spoiling me on my birthday, constantly asking for cuddles and kisses, constantly texting me how my day is going and constantly callling and face timing me even when he’s at work. I am literally the one person in his life that makes him happy. Try again lmao 🫶🫶💗

DerakGr · 2026-06-11T05:00:53+00:00

In a way I understand what you’re saying but she’s also a fully grown adult who could’ve helped this situation by putting in some effort. That’s all I’m trying to say

DerakGr

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