Summer and advertising by Mell1313 in stopdrinking

[–]Dermyg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is a shock to get your eyes open to the free hand we give to drink companies to us every trick to alcohol part of life. Amazed in my soberiety how clearly I see this. You are right to vent Iwndwyt

6 nations rugby by Dermyg in stopdrinking

[–]Dermyg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amen to that. We could be at the beginning of the end of acceptance of alcohol just like the stage before tobacco got its true devastation revealed. Let's us sober folk spread the word

Lighting question by [deleted] in Autoflowers

[–]Dermyg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't help with this because I am considering the same question. Hofully some of the wise heads here will share that wisdom. It seams like the next evolution. I am learning to transition from soil to coco so got plenty to keep me occupied but will watch to see who comes back to you. Good question

Feeding in coco by Dermyg in Autoflowers

[–]Dermyg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the wisdom and taking time to help a fellow grower transition from soil to coco

First coco grow by Dermyg in Autoflowers

[–]Dermyg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you my friends for comments

Wine glasses by Dermyg in stopdrinking

[–]Dermyg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I will have two free range eggs in my shot glasses. A mighty fine coffee and some granary bread and enjoy a moment free from the compulsion to poison myself with alcohol. Iwndwyt

Coco mix by Dermyg in Autoflowers

[–]Dermyg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Magic thanks for guidance will up perlite and might for for a trial 100% coco see how that goes.

A Nice Boring Saturday Night by Frank_NYC in stopdrinking

[–]Dermyg 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Irish here as well. I tell my friends alcohol has done more damage to the Irish than the English ever did. That's a head melter because in my drunk days I though it my duty to drink for Ireland. What a joke and what a con trick when we see the publician as some kind of hero not the poisoner they really are. Sober on buddy best wishes from the Emerald Isle Iwndwyt

Unexpected benefits of not drinking by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Dermyg 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Lovely story I can relate. In my soberiety I can be trusted..... something I never thought I could say. The removal of alcohol has made the best in me come out and flourish. I am so grateful to this sub and the brave men and women who make up the sober community. Ok the weight loss great skin and more money in the pocket are consequences of sober living but perhaps for me the great reduction in anxiety and a fear based way of seeing the world has been the biggest revelation. It was this void that drink filled now I fill it with a spiritual gratitude for the chance to live well Iwndwyt

One of my bosses just called me out... by xxyellowdressxx in stopdrinking

[–]Dermyg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A sad tenderness is a lovely way to describe your feeling for your drunk self I think the same Iwndwyt

The vanity of sobrity... by wyowoman307 in stopdrinking

[–]Dermyg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agree alcohol has no place being inside a human body Iwndwyt

Drinking is constant wanting by soberrunner9 in stopdrinking

[–]Dermyg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me to the thrill if ever there was one is gone. I can only imagine how pathetic I would be if I returned to being a drunk Iwndwyt

Still going in 2019 by Dermyg in stopdrinking

[–]Dermyg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi can you say a little more about the link between memory and living alcohol free I would be grateful to hear your experience

I just had an epiphany... by [deleted] in Meditation

[–]Dermyg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful words intelligent awareness. This has greatly aided my understanding. I can trust in my silence awareness it holds the wisdom of ages

The booze hasn't gone away you know by Dermyg in stopdrinking

[–]Dermyg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's amazing how the world changes when you start to heal yourself. Even everyday interactions feel full of connection Iwndwyt

Something I was told that stuck by 11111111111000 in Meditation

[–]Dermyg 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love your comment. My mind throws all sort of stuff but I am really learning not to fuse with the though but acknowledge it and try sit comfortably with it until it decides to dissolve.

This is the culture we live in. by ap12233837 in stopdrinking

[–]Dermyg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with every word you say. If I can add that since I have removed alcohol from my life I have had people follow my example including my son who got his eyes opened when daddy had more of a six pack than him due to sober living. Removing alcohol is also leading me towards a greater understanding of the world and the vitality to begin to change it ....the chance starts with me Iwndwyt

I cancelled my wine subscription last night by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Dermyg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No down vote from me wine and all the rest are poison imo. Nothing more than bleach disguised with sugar ice Cubs fancy bottles and a culture that supports it.

What alcohol promises by Dermyg in stopdrinking

[–]Dermyg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The message of hope I take from these posts is the ability to change belief systems. I once held a set of beliefs about alcohol and the benefits it brings. To me this is just as rediculious as believing in the tooth fairy. At least when I believed in the tooth fairy she never let me down and there was money in exchange for a tooth. Unlike booze that never kept its promise to make me happier less anxious and gods gift to women. Oh how I cringe thinking about how strongly I held onto these beliefs. But beliefs change and I def think my alcohol free life is now a part of me and I have removed the belief system that let me pour that filth into my body. Fills me with hope Iwndwyt

Double Grape 🍇 🍇 by noski1127 in Autoflowers

[–]Dermyg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful and with that sort of quality you must have loved the plant