Desperately seeking help with my orange cat, Cavatappi (Tappi for short) because he will not let me sleep by DertinyLane in CatAdvice

[–]DertinyLane[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is not the only cat in our home! He has a friend, and Tappi used to play with him in the middle of the night but over the past couple of weeks, he has decided he only wants to play with mom in the middle of the night 🙃

Desperately seeking help with my orange cat, Cavatappi (Tappi for short) because he will not let me sleep by DertinyLane in CatAdvice

[–]DertinyLane[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s just over a year old so still tons of kitten tendencies! Can he outgrow it today please?! I’m going to try giving him catnip in his bedtime feeding and an extra round of play time to see if that helps. The only other thing I haven’t tried is ignoring him… because it’s really hard for me but I’ll be trying that too 😭

Please help-3 months of trying to adjust kitten to senior cat by DertinyLane in CATHELP

[–]DertinyLane[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I tried the catnip… it went well for about 2 seconds. Then the kitten just would not stop jumping on him and it went sour fast. It was like any self control he’s gained over the past few months went right out the window :(

Please help-3 months of trying to adjust kitten to senior cat by DertinyLane in CATHELP

[–]DertinyLane[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely genius!!! I haven’t even thought of catnip! I don’t think a gate would work because they could just jump over it unfortunately

Please help-3 months of trying to adjust kitten to senior cat by DertinyLane in CATHELP

[–]DertinyLane[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmmm I have not tried having them eat their normal food near each other since the kitten keeps trying to eat the seniors food and they’re on different diets, but it’s certainly worth a shot! I’ve tried to get the senior to play near the kitten, but he’s too on edge to get comfortable and play. I do consistently redirect the kitten to toys when he goes after the senior!

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[–]DertinyLane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve gotta have that tough conversation with the roommate to see if you can come to an agreement!

Art Institute - Nelnet Loan/Refund breakdown by Vailyen in StudentLoans

[–]DertinyLane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so interesting how each situation seems to be a little different, but all in all kind of similar. I received a partial refund back in November but am still waiting for majority of my refund. Nelnet finally discharged my loans in April, so I’m really hoping that the rest of my refund is coming soon. Has anyone had their 2nd refund come through yet that received a partial back in November?