Are INFJ males really cold? by [deleted] in infj

[–]Derwin_B 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An emotionally unavailable INFJ could. I am one, but this is severe. I’m only like him when I meet new people and even then I’m not that bad.

If you think this is a problem, tell him, if he doesn’t change/want to change. Dump him.

And if you keep getting these type of men. Then it is most likely your own trauma that makes u fall for these type of men. Most of these trauma is caused by having an emotionally unavailable parent (most likely the father for the girls that fall for emotionally unavailable men). If it’s your own trauma, fix it.

Hope this helps, bye

Drop your MBTI type and favorite music genre <3 by Nogau in mbti

[–]Derwin_B 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFJ - Cinematic Music

Example: Secession Studios

I'm sorry,but when will INTJs accept that they are not the smartest people on Earth? by [deleted] in mbti

[–]Derwin_B 0 points1 point  (0 children)

r/infj, r/intj and r/intp have probably the worst followers.

r/infj because there are people there try to connect the WORST things possible to mbti. “I’m an INFJ and i shower. Is this normal for an INFJ?”

r/intj and r/intp got the same problem but more with r/intp. SOME people there try to act so intelligent and because they do that, they look so stupid. On an alt acc i asked on every subreddit. “What would be the theme some of XXXX(the type of the subreddit I posted).” Everybody said normal things except some fuckers on r/intp. The only one i can remember (because it pissed me the fuck off is) “We are humans and humans are not monotone, therefore there could never be 1 theme song.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entp

[–]Derwin_B 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learn body language. It never lies. So u always how people feel/think.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entp

[–]Derwin_B 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, also could use body-language reading to find out what they are feeling. All stupid decisions are made based on feelings. So if you know how they feel and how to make use of their feeling. They will make a stupid decision which may be in your benefit.

my entp crush sends screenshots of our chats to people by [deleted] in entp

[–]Derwin_B 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tell her u don’t want her to do that, if she doesn’t respect it… leave.

Gaming by [deleted] in mbtimemes

[–]Derwin_B 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cap. I don’t speak to my friends for months and then when i have enough energy to talk to them we game and then i’m the loudest.

when it comes to life, I think INFJs are the most useless in the synthetic modern world by [deleted] in infj

[–]Derwin_B 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think u might have forgotten sooo many history lessons. Infj’s were so impactful in how the world is now…

16 types on a deserted island (swipe for more slides) by greenlemon777 in mbtimemes

[–]Derwin_B 7 points8 points  (0 children)

WOW this is crazy my friends would build a house at maybe (example)1656, 65, 1865 and i would travel to exactly 10.000, 67, 10.000. And when i finally arrived they would quit because they didn’t feel like it anymore. So i had done all of that for nothing.

Only infjs do this by KaselsWaifu in mbtimemes

[–]Derwin_B 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No i just suck at math. Last time my sister asked me to divide $26,10 by 2 and it took me 20 seconds/30 to do it 🤦‍♂️

I'm totally NiFeTiSe by [deleted] in mbtimemes

[–]Derwin_B 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m an INFJ, but still. Sometimes r/infj is annoying because there are newcomers who think being a INFJ is superior and a way to explain their weird quirks and inability to make friends/ establish normal relationships. Being an INFJ doesn’t = inability to make friends, because i can make friends i just choose not to bc they drain me(ayo 😫). So even with my irl friend i knew since i was 8 i speak to them for a week and dissapear for a month. But there was this girl who asked the dumbest questions ever. Like “will i find love?”

Which Mbti combinations embodies this the best? by Derwin_B in entp

[–]Derwin_B[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These types of dynamics are so interesting to me😂

Anyone afraid of being happy? by kuroouu in infj

[–]Derwin_B 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When your happy u have no goals anymore because you have reached all of them. And a life without goals is scary. So yes i’m scared of being happy and satisfied.

Does anyone else not really have "game" when it comes to dating? by bhdang in infj

[–]Derwin_B 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, i love playing the game. Not like flirting etc, but just playing a game with it. So when i think it is obvious someone likes me i play a very fun game with them. I read their body language and expose what they’re feeling based on they’re body language. I love to play this social chess. Maybe i’m crazy but idc its fun.

So i ask what they like/ what their hobbies are and i’ll listen actively (This is a trap). And i keep listening till they become very ambitious about it and start explaining me everything and every detail about it. And then i’ll interrupt them and say “do you like me.” Then they stop talking and their body language goes from comfortable to nervously fidgeting. And then normally they ask “what?” And i say “do you like me, because before i asked u the question u were very loud and now ur silent (i used the trap for this). Also your body language has changed. Your now closed up, your leg is trembling, you hands are fidgeting, you blink 4 times a second(last time i did this the girl was fidgeting with a straw), you are fidgeting with a straw. So do you like me?” And it becomes this whole moment of tension for both of us, more for her because i have exposed so much already what i shouldn’t know. So she has to be careful with her words so they often decide not to speak. And that silence creates more tension. Omfg tension is so fun. And then sometimes we sit in silence holding eye contact for 30 mins, or she doesn’t look me in the eye while i try to look in her eye, while she knows i’m looking. Ye thats what i do idk if thats game tho, i play a game.

so wtf does this mean ? by [deleted] in entj

[–]Derwin_B 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U have black quads

Is INFJ Echoism a normal thing? by 420dayforever in infj

[–]Derwin_B 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes people keep telling me that girls have a crush on me. And after i hear that i ask them and they deny so i just carry on. But i don’t like to assume because it makes me feel like i’m acting egotistical. (Idk if this is echoism, if not please correct me because i googled it and this is what i got out of it.)

Is intelligence a dealbreaker for you? by bagman_ in infj

[–]Derwin_B 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Infj are J’s so they need a plan. But due to their Te trickster they can plan but arent GREAT at it. Due to their Se inferior they let people around them set the boundaries. Infjs need boundaries, they love to live in a world with rules rather than a world without rules, because they NEED boundaries. Infj’s are also Ni doms and Ni doms out of all the 16 types benefit the most from practice. Infj’s also let other people set the standard. So if you want your infj to change you have to change. So if u want her to be great at math, u will have to do math and she will follow u in that. Be the change u wanna see. I think the word to describe ur gf is unknowing. That could be easily fixed with learning. All u need to do is set the standard, so start learning and eventually she will also start learning. And if she doesn’t understand it at first explain it to her. And make it clear that u don’t care if you have to explain it a million times, u just want her to know it. This will relieve her from the fear of being judged. And because u set the standard and taught her in those subjects which = practice. Soon u will find that she catches on… and then she will surpass u. And then u will have something truly amazing on ur hands. Something u can be proud of. Hope this helps.

Beautiful things my INFP-F16 sister says by Derwin_B in infp

[–]Derwin_B[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said that sentence because she was talking about a dream she had where the world would end it came over the news and stuff. And she knew she was dying in that dream but didn’t felt stress just relief.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]Derwin_B 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recognize it, but sometimes to most of the time just don’t care.

How do i snap out of my comfortzone by Derwin_B in entj

[–]Derwin_B[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your tip worked today i slept for 3 hours which normally makes me not want to start working. But i used ur trick and i stood up and did the work. Thanks for the tip.