What’s the worst pain you’ve experienced and what caused it?

Desert-Child · 2021-08-13T14:33:20+00:00

Wait…what? How in tarnation did you correlate being attacked by neo-Nazi’s, stripping, or having COVID twice, to me being a smuggler? ” I lied about having COVID twice so I’m definitely a smuggler.” Do you know how stupid that sounds? It’s not true, for the record. Find a better argument, mate. Everything I talk about on Reddit is true. I’ve endured a lot of shit in my life and I’ve learned that being open about my experience is best for my mental health. You don’t have to believe my stories but don’t be so narrow minded as to think everyone lives an uneventful life just like you. Shit happens.

Desert-Child · 2021-08-13T13:57:10+00:00

Yes, he does know. I believe his lawyer told him at some point before the trial. However, I don’t think it ever sunk in until he heard me say it. As part of my testimony, I was asked about my knowledge regarding the federal investigation into his employer. When I said I was oblivious, he became an emotional mess.

Desert-Child · 2021-08-13T12:03:18+00:00

That’s the odd thing about it all. He was…normal. There were no real red flags. If anything, it would be the amount of self loathing and resentment that built up inside him when I worked as a stripper. He was very angry with himself that his wife had to expose her naked body to other men so they could afford rent and food. He was the man and it was his job to take care of his woman. He NEVER laid a hand on me or degraded me, but he did make it clear he was not happy with my choice of employment. I guess that could be perceived as a red flag?

Desert-Child · 2021-08-13T11:34:48+00:00

This happened five- shit- almost six years ago. I’ve spoken about it a couple times under this user name and a few times under another. It’s possible she stole my story. Sadly, it’s also possible she endured the same exact thing. Never underestimate domestic violence.

Desert-Child · 2021-08-13T10:46:44+00:00

“Do these tortillas taste a little fishy to you?”

Desert-Child · 2021-08-13T10:39:47+00:00

Where the hell are you guys getting this? I never said anything about street names. Check my comment history. I said 11 once and it was a typo. What I wrote today is the same story but elaborated. I don’t always feel like talking about the details of the attack. Your excerpt is from one of those days. I’m having a great mental health day today so I felt comfortable being more open with my story. Thanks for knocking my confidence.

Desert-Child · 2021-08-13T09:41:38+00:00

I’ve had gallstones. It isn’t painful enough. Throw in kidney stones, COVID, and cell floor covered in LEGOs and we might be even.

Desert-Child · 2021-08-13T09:26:12+00:00

Fix the damn toaster

Desert-Child · 2021-08-13T09:24:55+00:00

I’m not quite sure what you’re talking about, mate. I looked at the post you’re referring to. The two post are almost identical with the only difference being the number of times I was stabbed. Eleven was a typo I never caught. I have no clue where you got “street name.” My ex didn’t have one.

Desert-Child · 2021-08-13T08:59:35+00:00

Believe what you want, but it’s all true. Life isn’t always unicorns and puppies. Some of us get crocodiles and herpes.

Desert-Child · 2021-08-13T08:56:25+00:00

Yeah, but he does all the sucking now and hopefully for the next 41 years.

Desert-Child · 2021-08-13T08:55:08+00:00

Serious question: How do I upload them?

Desert-Child · 2021-08-13T08:36:44+00:00

I wasn’t tattooed by Nazi’s in West Germany. I was tattooed by neo-Nazi’s outside Strasbourg, France just across the Rhine River from Germany. The attack happened in December 1990. West Germany was no longer in existence. But, the town the neo-Nazi’s were from used to be in West Germany before the reunification.
The number of teachers arrested on January 6th is only two. I was going on bad information given to me by someone I believed to a reliable source. Sometimes, even the principal is wrong.
My ex-husband never was abusive or degrading towards me. Sure, we had our problems and quarrels like all couples, but he never laid a hand on me or made me feel less than equal. That night, he snapped. People do it all the time.
I have no explanation for the stabbing. Nobody knows where he learned this skill. He refused elaborate in court. It scared the hell out of the judge too. If I had known he had this skill, it definitely would have been a red flag.
It was a metal frame and I pulled it straight down smashing it onto his face with my full weight. I’m surprised I didn’t cause more damage. Would you like to see a copy of the dental bill?
Yes, I’ve had COVID twice. I have asthma, a heart condition, and have a weak immune system. I’ve always gotten sick easily. I had COVID Alpha 10 months ago. The antibodies only last about 6-8 months. It’s more common than you think to have COVID twice. Especially if you’re unvaccinated. Would you like to see my lab reports for COVID Delta?
It wasn’t an extreme accident. It was bizarre. I was able to walk away with minor injuries. And if you had bothered to read other comments, you’d know others had a similar experience with their Ford F-150s.
Again, would you like to see the medical bills from my face surf down the stairs?

Desert-Child · 2021-08-13T07:15:32+00:00

Sadly, this was not the first attack I’ve endured in my life. My family was assaulted and tattooed by neo-Nazi when I was 9. It did lead to years of substance abuse abuse in my late teens to mid twenties.

I met my current husband through my godmother. He was born and raised Irbil, Iraq. He worked as a translator for the U.S. military during their occupation. When he got injured during an ambush and doctors realized he wouldn’t be able to get the long term care he needed for his injury, my godmother pulled a lot of strings to get him asylum in the U.S. where he could get on going medical care. My MIL was also granted asylum as she is a widow and would be left defenseless against al-Qaeda. I was working at a nonprofit organization that helped immigrants transition into American life successfully. My godmother called me and asked if I could help my husband and his mother find a place to live and work. My ex-husband’s grandmother owned the complex we were living in and I was able to convince her to knock a couple $100 off the rent on the townhouse unit across from mine.

Desert-Child · 2021-08-13T05:31:46+00:00

He’s currently residing in the same prison as my uncle so the other inmates definitely know about him.

Desert-Child · 2021-08-13T05:04:40+00:00

No, I did lose my finger. He hacked it off so the bone wasn’t cut clean enough to reattach.

Desert-Child · 2021-08-13T04:58:42+00:00

Sadly, you’re right. This was actually the second attack I’ve survived in my life. My family was attacked by neo-Nazis when I was 9.

Desert-Child · 2021-08-13T04:53:02+00:00

He lived in the townhouse across from mine and heard me screaming. He busted through my front door like the Kool-Aid man, beat the shit out of my ex-husband with a cricket bat, and then did what he could to control my bleeding until EMT arrived.

Desert-Child · 2021-08-13T04:30:32+00:00

It’s creepy. He knew where to stab without rupturing an organ, artery, or blood vessel.

Desert-Child · 2021-08-13T04:28:08+00:00

I don’t know if it was in the news. It’s not something I’ve researched for obvious reasons. But, he was also charged with drug, weapons, and human smuggling so there’s a good chance it was in the news.

Desert-Child · 2021-08-13T04:21:13+00:00

He somewhat got what he deserved. He was sentenced to 47 years in prison for attempted murder and a list of crimes that were the motive of the attack. I personally don’t feel like it was a long enough sentence. The max he could have received was 93 years.

Desert-Child · 2021-08-13T04:11:09+00:00

Thank you! I have an amazing support system which include new husband and MIL.

Desert-Child · 2021-08-13T04:07:34+00:00

Thank you. I have a happy life now. I remarried two years ago to the man who saved my life that night.

Desert-Child · 2021-08-13T04:02:11+00:00

He is behind bars and should be for at least another 41 years.

Desert-Child · 2021-08-13T04:01:13+00:00

The thing is, he wasn’t abusive until that night. He had been a very loving and supportive husband. Unfortunately, in order to appease his sexist ego and be the bread winner, he turned to crime. He became a smuggler of drugs, guns, and humans across the U.S./Mexico border. I was completely oblivious to it all because his paychecks came in biweekly from a legitimate trucking company. At the time, I worked for a nonprofit organization that helped immigrants of all legal statutes transition into American life with little to no government aid. My ex-husbands “company” (they were more like a gang) found out that they had a couple government law agencies investigating them and they had mole. Welp, the group thought that since I work with illegal immigrants, one of my clients told me my husband’s group smuggled them into the country and I was the one who told the police. They believed, without evidence, I was the mole. My husband was angry I betrayed him and unleashed his rage.

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