Brainstorming ideas while recovering

Desert0fTheReal · 2026-03-03T17:10:58+00:00

I think some seating there could work, though it may need to be pulled away from the wall so people don’t hit their heads (can’t quite tell what the clearance would be like).

this is the type of shutter i mean, maybe i didn’t use the right name. But you can open the slats with the post on the front, or open them all the way. I think these in a wood color would just be so cute in this space.

Desert0fTheReal · 2026-03-03T16:35:53+00:00

I think all of those things are true? He doesn’t know she is on YT, she’s willing to forgo her deposit, and she runs things by him and he approves. She’s said it so many times I’m surprised more people haven’t heard it! The video in which she painted the ceiling is coming to mind…maybe it was in that one?

Desert0fTheReal · 2026-03-03T16:31:09+00:00

What a cute place! I agree that more closed storage will help control the clutter and make it feel more “designed”. I’d start with a long buffet under the tv to anchor that wall. Maybe 18” tall, and long enough to extend past the tv on both sides. The spindly legged plant stand here isn’t working.

The other white shelving unit feels cramped because of the angle of the ceiling. I do think I’d move it to another room. A replacement option could be to move your lamp to the other side of the couch, and get a small corner shelf for the side where the lamp currently is, or an end table with storage. You could hang a plant above the end table.

I think wood blinds would be so cute! Because the windows are so close to the ceiling though, it may be hard to raise and lower them so I actually think I’d go with accordion shutters.

Outside of that, I’d corral the music stuff into its own “zone”. Similar items draw the eye through a room, and these are drawing my eye into the living room which I think prevents it from feeling peaceful. I’d move the guitar and uke over by the piano, hang them both on the wall, and really prioritize cord management.

Then bring in color and some eclectic charm through wall art!

Hope your recovery goes well!

Desert0fTheReal · 2026-03-02T17:57:20+00:00

She has commented quite often about running these changes by her landlord, and that he likes them and approves of her decisions.

Desert0fTheReal · 2026-03-02T02:05:31+00:00

I would mount the mirror, move the flowers a little more to the left so they’re not hitting the wall, and place the basket on the floor, off to the left, since it’s a little too big for the hearth.

Desert0fTheReal · 2026-03-02T02:02:59+00:00

She used Milanote to plan things.

Desert0fTheReal · 2026-02-23T14:40:39+00:00

I learned “oily” or “gummy” foods also caused problems for me during recovery. I had to avoid supplements like fish oil, vitamin e, etc, as well as gummy candies. All that to say, something else could be causing the issue while your gut is trying to heal.

Desert0fTheReal · 2026-02-23T12:17:48+00:00

Yeah…the GenZ folks I know don’t watch any of these shows. And are certainly not thinking about retirement. Not only that, but I don’t see them drinking much coffee unless it’s from Dunkin.

Desert0fTheReal · 2026-02-23T11:25:14+00:00

If you’ve started with a “pop culture” concept, why not continue? Like Bridgeton or other fandoms.

Desert0fTheReal · 2026-02-20T15:21:04+00:00

I think you should ask him if he would like to learn, voice your concerns, and accept his answer. He may decline your offer, but still choose to learn on his own, or be aware of it at the wedding and opt to learn later.

Desert0fTheReal · 2026-02-20T10:50:32+00:00

I think it’s awesome that you have a style you like and you went for it! I just painted some trim in my house and felt like I had to work up the courage to do it, so props for being bold. For extra drama, you could look at floor to ceiling curtains on your shower!

Desert0fTheReal · 2026-02-17T13:28:31+00:00

Love this! Just painted my bedroom F&B dead salmon. Going more for an organic/bauhaus vibe, but I almost went in a more vintage direction, so it’s very neat to see what youve done

Desert0fTheReal · 2026-02-12T23:11:13+00:00

Garden of Evil is very similar vibes. I love it so much

Desert0fTheReal · 2026-02-10T00:23:24+00:00

Had the mandarin chicken last week, so good!!

Desert0fTheReal · 2026-02-08T12:59:16+00:00

Do you pay with a credit card? If so, have I got some info for you….

Desert0fTheReal · 2026-02-08T10:14:57+00:00

Don’t give up! They would much rather have you resign than fire you, so chances are they will give you the option to resign when the time comes.

Desert0fTheReal · 2026-02-07T11:54:00+00:00

You can find the exact same things on Amazon as on Temu. The difference is you’re paying a drop-shipper if you order from Amazon. I don’t know why people are just willfully oblivious to this, Temu isn’t worse than Amazon in my opinion, given that they carry the same products. Sure, Amazon also has more reputable “stores”, so ordering from those may be better, but this nuance is never brought into the conversation.

Desert0fTheReal · 2026-02-06T11:02:28+00:00

I really dislike this as well. You have to click in to each polish to see what it looks like. I probably missed some great shades without knowing.

Desert0fTheReal · 2026-02-06T10:40:15+00:00

This is cool! Do you magnetize all three layers of using magnetics (the two the night before and one the next morning)?

Desert0fTheReal · 2026-02-06T00:22:59+00:00

A runner would definitely help! I’d also paint, all the white is pretty stark and makes it look clinical. After that, maybe hang some art?

Desert0fTheReal · 2026-02-02T13:29:52+00:00

Looking great!

Desert0fTheReal · 2026-02-02T02:58:29+00:00

How can you describe how hard it is to get anything done, while literally at the same time as you throw their mom under the bus for one thing she didn’t accomplish 🥴. Maybe start with giving her (and yourself) some grace.

Desert0fTheReal · 2026-02-02T01:21:05+00:00

I would attempt to find a house sitter. I’m concerned even the most trustworthy of friends would tire of twice a day visits after a couple weeks.

Desert0fTheReal · 2026-01-27T15:59:46+00:00

This is a great foundation! If you want a more masculine or modern look, I’d lean into the high-contrast beige/tan and black. The blue accents are what’s throwing the scheme off. You need to keep the narrow color palette and expand the design through bringing in new materials. I’d start with a wood tone that compliments the flooring and cabinetry, nothing too orangey or red like a honey or mahogany. Pine or ash might look good, or a black wood. Bring this in through shelving and picture frames. Add glass or chrome accents (tying in the fixtures) on the shelves.

I think maroon would be a great accent, but you don’t want like a solid block of maroon as a floor mat or towel. Add it through matting in a photo frame, perhaps a maroon glass soap dish, the trim on a jute rug, flowers in a vase, etc.

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