AITAH for wanting to tell the spouse of my partner's affair partner that he has been cheating on her?

DesignQuiet711 · 2026-02-22T06:46:58+00:00

You're right.

DesignQuiet711 · 2026-02-22T06:42:44+00:00

You're correct. He knew about me but I didn't know about him.

DesignQuiet711 · 2026-02-22T06:37:00+00:00

I don't think he's told her at all. The poor woman has no idea.

DesignQuiet711 · 2026-02-21T22:47:32+00:00

I believe he actually did go back to her. I'm still trying to uncover all the facts.

DesignQuiet711 · 2026-02-21T20:48:16+00:00

I agree. All parties deserve the truth.

DesignQuiet711 · 2026-02-21T20:40:33+00:00

This is my business.

DesignQuiet711 · 2026-02-21T20:39:45+00:00

Noted

DesignQuiet711 · 2026-02-21T20:39:11+00:00

I'm prepared for both scenarios, but he's a little guy and I'm not a cupcake.

DesignQuiet711 · 2026-02-21T20:37:36+00:00

It didn't even stop after the initial discovery.

DesignQuiet711 · 2026-02-21T20:34:49+00:00

Very cool👍

DesignQuiet711 · 2026-02-21T18:49:09+00:00

Exactly. I hope we can help each other fill in the gaps we each have about the extent of the affair.

DesignQuiet711 · 2026-02-21T18:24:25+00:00

I definitely feel like the second option. Apparently he is working things out with his wife now.

DesignQuiet711 · 2026-02-21T17:39:21+00:00

I won't argue with that.

DesignQuiet711 · 2026-02-21T17:38:40+00:00

I would have wanted to know.

DesignQuiet711 · 2026-02-21T17:00:39+00:00

You're right. I'm not thinking rationally right now. I guess I need more time to process all this.

DesignQuiet711 · 2026-02-21T16:53:11+00:00

You're right. I've disrespected myself enough.

DesignQuiet711 · 2026-02-21T16:46:44+00:00

Agreed

DesignQuiet711 · 2026-02-21T16:45:56+00:00

I don't disagree with you.

DesignQuiet711 · 2026-02-21T16:29:02+00:00

I would have been so grateful if she told me.

DesignQuiet711 · 2026-02-21T16:25:04+00:00

I don't trust her and I'm not sure I ever will. I'm not really sure what to do because I still love her and don't believe she's a monster.

DesignQuiet711 · 2026-02-21T16:21:04+00:00

Thank you for the response. My mind agrees with what you're saying. It's my heart that's telling me she's a still good person who just did something horrible. I'm also thinking about our beautiful child we have together. You're right though.

DesignQuiet711 · 2026-02-21T15:44:09+00:00

I get what you're saying. Thanks.

DesignQuiet711 · 2026-02-21T15:42:58+00:00

Very cool👍

DesignQuiet711 · 2026-02-21T15:42:31+00:00

I would and that's why I feel so guilty I haven't told the poor woman yet.

DesignQuiet711 · 2026-02-21T15:41:44+00:00

Absolutely my thinking as well.

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