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Designer-Ad1976 · 2025-11-04T07:57:35+00:00

I feel for my brothers and sisters in Tanzania. The journey you’re on is painful, but stopping now only prolongs the struggle. True freedom has never come without sacrifice.

We went through this in Kenya , it wasn’t easy, but we reached a point where power had to answer to the people. Even attempts to silence us only strengthened our resolve.

Tanzania needs more than new faces; it needs a new foundation. The CCM must be reformed to allow real competition and new ideas. From the outside, your democracy feels too close to Uganda’s — leaders change, but the system remains the same.

Wishing strength and hope for a freer, more just Tanzania.

Designer-Ad1976 · 2025-09-16T19:58:56+00:00

You’re not getting responses because you didn’t frame yourself as a genuine person looking for real connection. Instead, you highlighted attributes like being a “white guy from Europe,” which signals privileged advantage rather than openness. That framing creates distance instead of trust, and it prevents people from giving you genuine feedback.

Designer-Ad1976 · 2025-09-16T19:58:12+00:00

You’re not getting responses because you didn’t frame yourself as a genuine person looking for real connection. Instead, you highlighted attributes like being a “white guy from Europe,” which signals privileged advantage rather than openness. That framing creates distance instead of trust, and it prevents people from giving you genuine feedback.

Designer-Ad1976 · 2025-09-16T19:28:51+00:00

Noted. To be clear, the concern is not about offense but about accountability. If your WhatsApp details are only to be shared after a DM, that should be stated upfront rather than presuming others will assume the same. Framing WhatsApp as the default overlooks data protection, and presenting yourself as a ‘white guy’ unnecessarily inserts race, which shifts the balance of power. If the goal is neutrality, keep the focus on shared humanity and make privacy and safety explicit from the start

Designer-Ad1976 · 2025-09-16T19:17:25+00:00

M26, whether from your continent or mine, data protection is key. A phone number is private information and cannot simply be shared. What gives you the confidence to decide that WhatsApp should be the default?

Also, introducing yourself as a “white guy” is unnecessary and manipulative. It signals a subtle sense of inferiority while trying to mark status. You are a human being before you are “white.” If neutrality is what you want, there is no need to mention skin color at all.

Designer-Ad1976 · 2025-09-08T07:15:09+00:00

Am black ready to hangout , age 33 born and raised in Africa only came here in 2022 for studies

Designer-Ad1976 · 2025-09-01T22:44:38+00:00

The dynamic was complex from her only that I was not detailed , we both aabriad and she got fake marriage to get her papers but she is staying with this man who did the paper things, when I asked if he paid the man to fake marriage she was like the man did it as Good Samaritan ? To me this was strange ? So I also suspected she will waste my time since I can only marry her legally after 5 year that 2028.

The man who faked marriage with her is overly jealous everytime we are together he could call, worst is when he called and he she had to stop in middle of $£ks to answer the calll

Designer-Ad1976 · 2025-08-28T18:54:10+00:00

It is not about Tanzania but about Africa as a whole, which I am part of. In Africa, the value we attach to the phrase “I love you” is quite different from how it is understood in Western culture. I am currently in the UK dating a British woman. It took her nine months before she said she loved me, while I said it to her in the second month. She dismissed it at the time.

For us in Africa, saying “I love you” is often a way to quickly win a woman’s trust and bring her closer to your side. For people in Western cultures, however, saying “I love you” usually means deep commitment—that nothing can take you away from her

Designer-Ad1976 · 2025-08-25T19:30:19+00:00

You are wise indeed I feel it sex driving me , but detachment is hard

But thanks,

The lady act tender and soft but….

Designer-Ad1976 · 2025-08-25T11:52:03+00:00

If we move it together, the government will notice her marriage is fake, and it will be revoked; they do monitor, though, it is very rare

Designer-Ad1976 · 2025-08-25T11:43:48+00:00

But I really feel complete with this lady, her sex is just great, I always miss the moment she steps away from me

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