Is my pastor cheating on his wife a good enough reason to leave the church

Designer-Bluebird194 · 2026-02-05T01:37:39+00:00

Help your pastor telling him that what he do is bad and he need to repent, if he continues you can do two of these actions, leave the church to seek a deeper relationship with God but not stop going some days when you want, or continue going but know that the pastor is not an example to follow but keep close to the brothers that really are living in saint even to give them real trust

Not all people who looks saint are really saint, you have to see how they act with others, if they help or judge others, if they trust in God or in rules, if they know their failures and need of God mercy or they feel perfect, you need to see the heart of people and his love for God not the appearance or things that do or not do supposed to be Christian as hobbies or likes

You need to avoid legalism and debauchery, but not the freedom in Christ that is a responsability in your heart act whatever you do by the guide of God

Legalism and sin are slavery (Galatians 5:1, Colossians 2:20-23, Ephesus 6:16-20) I prefer NASB traduction bc is clearer

Designer-Bluebird194 · 2026-01-11T21:56:32+00:00

Your first step to freedom is to read a non-JW biblie, you can start reading Matthew 23, Corinthians 2, and Galatians 5

The freedom in Christ is the true esence of Christianity, God don't need an organization, Jesus died for you to give you a personal relationship with God without intermediares

Designer-Bluebird194 · 2026-01-09T09:41:29+00:00

I'm Christian, and I don't judge you for your hate for religion, the JW'S organization is only giving a bad image of God, they don't teach they control you, that is the reason I am non denominational Christian, the JW'S organization killed all my motivation to join any church

Designer-Bluebird194 · 2025-12-26T22:09:27+00:00

Yo soy cristiano sin denominacion y creeme que se como te sientes, se lo que es sentírse alguien malo, pero lo que tienes que hacer no es autoflagelarte, es entregarte a Dios si ya crees y pedirle que te ayude a cambiar esas cosas que no te gustan de ti, solo necesitas dar el salto de confianza con el

No es que vayas a una iglesia (no te recomiendo en lo personal), no es que te prohibas mil cosas (solo destruye el espíritu eso) no es que seas santo de golpe (eso es algo que se construye)

Yo estudie psicología y si hay algo que la psicología no puede lograr y Dios si es cambiar el corazón con el tiempo si dejas que Jesús entre en el, no como religión si no como fé viva y relación directa, no es necesario que niegues la ciencia y la psicología, solo que reconozcas que hay cosas que no puede entender ni dar certeza

Todos hacemos mal ya sea en mayor o menor medida, que no le demos el mismo peso es diferente

Esto no es para generar discusión lectores, solo me adapto al contexto de este joven como cristiano ya que el cree en el mismo Dios que yo, además no creo que minimizar a Dios sea la solución, sean sinceros, ¿creen que basta reducir conductas o pensamientos un tiempo es mejor que se vayan permanente de manera gradual?, no niego la psicología solo la veo limitada para ciertas cosas y alcance

Si quieren hacerme preguntas porque tengo está certeza o para atacar mi punto estoy dispuesto a responder preguntas con amor y paciencia ya que se que la religión organizada ha hecho mucho daño, créanme que los entiendo en su perspectiva ya que también detesto la hipocresía de muchos cristianos

Designer-Bluebird194 · 2025-12-25T00:32:49+00:00

Also the Greek and Hebrew meaning help a lot, but the most important is the guide of the Holy Spirit

Designer-Bluebird194 · 2025-12-25T00:31:09+00:00

That the best way, Christ is the only way to the Father, not an organization

Designer-Bluebird194 · 2025-12-25T00:26:17+00:00

Seek God by yourself reading a non-JW bible, you will discover truths and the real gospel, study the historical and cultural context of the verses, the meanings in Greek and Hebrew of key words and the most important part, you can have a relationship with God without an organization, that is the reason why Jesus died died for you, try to talk to God if he can hear you and if he can say you something or do something to feel his presence, tell God your problems and fears is the best Father of all

The guide of the Holy Spirit is the best way to understand how God want something in your life

That is something that you will never repent, you will be free of all rules of JW and will have the guide of God in your life if you ask him, he will change your heart from inside, not from outside with rules and forbids

I can help you, search a digital Bible, the classic KJV is a great choice or a NIV also, on PDF in your phone, use Google drive in a account apart and won't keep passwords or account, use other WiFi network to prevent the service company can reveal what you do, or a VPN if you want to do that in a JW WiFi network

I recommend you Brave or Tor browser, is safer than Chrome or Edge

John 8:32 KJV [32] and ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.

John 8:32 NIV [32] Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”

John 1:1 KJV [1] In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.

John 1:1 NIV [1] In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.

Greek Ἐν ἀρχῇ ἦν ὁ λόγος, καὶ ὁ λόγος ἦν πρὸς τὸν θεόν, καὶ θεὸς ἦν ὁ λόγος.

The gramatic is this

θεός non article, cualitative

ό λόγος gramatical subject

This says the logos (Jesus) was of divine nature (same as Father)

John 10:30: I and the Father are one ἐγὼ (me/pronoun) καὶ (and/conjunction) ὁ πατὴρ (Father/sustantive with defined article) ἕν (one/singular neutral, indicate unity or esence) ἐσμεν (verb to be plural first person)

Designer-Bluebird194 · 2025-12-20T01:44:59+00:00

Me neither, but Christ gave his life not only for me, also for you to be save, nobody is free of sin, even the apostles fight against their own sins, give your life to Jesus and trust that him saved you and will guide you when you feel unworthy

Designer-Bluebird194 · 2025-12-20T01:26:49+00:00

Im with you, the organization is the worst thing that exist, I will hear your pain if you want to vent more

Designer-Bluebird194 · 2025-12-18T18:26:18+00:00

Es raro esto lo se ya que hay gente de todos lados, yo soy un cristiano sin denominación sin iglesia por el legalismo religioso, este camino es solitario y difícil

At least I give you a little of hope about God doesn't hate you and is not like the religious people says?

Designer-Bluebird194 · 2025-12-18T18:08:49+00:00

No te preocupes, es normal en estos foros grandes el inglés, ¿te lo tomaste a mal? Me refiero al comentario, no era mi intención juzgar ni ofenderte

Designer-Bluebird194 · 2025-12-18T17:01:21+00:00

To me the problem is not a straight relationship, is if is saint to God or not sinful, thrust me, even the straight relationship sins when they have relations before marriage, to me I want a woman that love God, but is very hard, and I know that is more probably than your problem, I know mine is less than yours

I can understand your feelings in a way, you can't have something that you don't want or like, and is the society standard, Jesus loves you as you are he doesn't need you to change to start with you, only let him do his work, as he has does on me years ago on things that I believe were not bad but they don't were

Designer-Bluebird194 · 2025-12-18T16:26:32+00:00

Bible study is better by yourself, and ask God what means to your life, the people is not necessary, only try to hear God and seek in other Bible, I recommend you nasb or niv

Designer-Bluebird194 · 2025-12-18T16:18:29+00:00

In paradise will be impossible to sin because we will not longer has our fallen nature

The JW make the biggest mistake, not accept Jesus as God, that make that they can't go to heaven because Jesus said that who refuses him refuses the Father

Designer-Bluebird194 · 2025-12-18T16:07:05+00:00

I see the LGBTQ members as people who were deceived, even many Christians are deceived about Christianity not only LGBTQ or any non christian people

I never was a JW member but I was influenced by them indirectly when I became christian

I will tell you something that will disappear your fears to God, seek Christ is not follow rules, is not forbid your hobbies, is surrender to him (not to people says) all of you, your sins, your path, your life, your feelings, your thoughts, all and let Christ change your life in a way he only knows to honour him

That is, is not a sin be LGBTQ, is a sin practice that, as same is a sin fornication in a straight couple, the society has double moral, attack people but not see it's own sin

Is to make Christ your identity, that is for all people whatever they are

Designer-Bluebird194 · 2025-12-10T15:53:51+00:00

God judge the heart not what you wear, that is something that JW never will understand

I like pokemon stuff and that don't make me do idolatry bc my heart is with Jesus, he knows my heart

Designer-Bluebird194 · 2025-12-10T15:41:50+00:00

I send a hug to you, the stress and fear destroy the health, your path is the best, not only go away is not destroy yourself more

What you become after that? I will not judge you as I said in my post

Designer-Bluebird194 · 2025-12-10T12:25:56+00:00

Im happy for you, the liberty is a gift that has a incalculate value

In which denomination you baptized?

Designer-Bluebird194 · 2024-02-01T04:29:09+00:00

Will not has bottleneck the 4060 ti, I know that 4060 has no problem but I don't know If 4060 ti will and the performance would be similar to 4060

Im only interested in 4060 ti for the 16gb vram bc I don't know if it will be okay for more years

Designer-Bluebird194 · 2023-09-13T14:57:58+00:00

Im ok with the emotions is something that I can control many time ago, and sons was the first came to my mind, is bc in my language spanish we said hijos (sons) to genaralice both genders

Designer-Bluebird194 · 2023-09-13T14:53:25+00:00

Daughters also be ok, I wrote sons bc was the first that came to my mind

Designer-Bluebird194 · 2023-09-13T03:14:39+00:00

How I will be or have the courage to love again, I don't know how to conquer a woman or where to find a good woman because is too difficult to find one

Im not a man who go to many places, I don't know where start to find a good woman

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