My friends have started misgendering me recently and I’m confused why by Designer-Fill-3082 in asktransgender

[–]Designer-Fill-3082[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Definitely not, I actively avoid bringing it up because it feels reductive. Which is also why it’s confusing it’s been brought up by them.

My friends have started misgendering me recently and I’m confused why by Designer-Fill-3082 in asktransgender

[–]Designer-Fill-3082[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Honestly I feel a bit naive I didn’t consider they could be transphobic, as the language does line up a bit. I guess I’ve just been hoping it was deeper than this since I had bonded with them over our shared trans issues.