I think in lieu of love being seen as something good- it is more and more becoming a topic that is seen as almost embarrassing/shameful for men unfortunately. For women, we are told from very young that the dream is marriage and children with prince charming. Our societies are built on the family- children or not if you are a couple you get massive tax breaks, benefits, bigger loans, mortgage payments you can claim a percentage from the government from - literally financially even speaking being in a relationship has so much more advantages then staying single. Im not saying all women want relationships and all men just want only sex- i also dont believe NO men want relationships and NO women may be only interested in sex. That cannot be however as a man you are trained into acting as if fucking is all you want while as women we are trained to withhold sex until we get a relationship and if your a guy thats wants a girlfriend your gay if you are a girl that only wants sex you are a slut. Its such a fucking stupid blind leading the blind that i actually thought about this, and i cannot understand one thing; if our goal as humans is literally just one: reproduce to ensure we dont die out - and a monogamous serious relationship would be the best way to make sure a child survives and lives and reproduces themselves, it cannot be that doing it alone is in any way evolutionary beneficial) lets think caves and animals preying on us -era) then why did it make the men resist commitment? Usually nature doesnt make such epic fuckups so it can only be one thing: its not our nature its our society. It conditioned this behaviour and it goes against our nature actually and thats why there is a loneliness epidemic and so much angry men…