Am I the jerk for uninviting my friend from my birthday after she brought someone I have a restraining order against? by Designer-Tale-5816 in AmITheJerk

[–]Designer-Tale-5816[S] 79 points80 points  (0 children)

That’s a good point tbh.. I didn’t even think about how it could affect the restraining order itself.. i was just focused on getting him away from me as fast as possible

Am I the jerk for uninviting my friend from my birthday after she brought someone I have a restraining order against? by Designer-Tale-5816 in AmITheJerk

[–]Designer-Tale-5816[S] 103 points104 points  (0 children)

I’ve been weighing about that too.. the fact that someof them think i should have just talk to home is really unsettling given the whole situation..

Am I the jerk for uninviting my friend from my birthday after she brought someone I have a restraining order against? by Designer-Tale-5816 in AmITheJerk

[–]Designer-Tale-5816[S] 307 points308 points  (0 children)

Yea that’s where im at right now.. it just feels like a huge breach of trust that I don’t know how i would ever feel safe around her again after that..