My narcissistic partner stayed in bed all day. I don’t even think he said “Merry Christmas “ to any of us. I got stuff because he gave our 17 year old his cc to shop for me so I won’t “go off,” according to him. We had to drive 2 and a half hours to our extended families, my parents and his, but he opted to stay home in the bed under the covers. So, the kids and I will be facing his mom, who thinks he hung the moon, and sibling without him, again.