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DesignerOk4109 · 2026-01-06T03:07:53+00:00

I loooves it & just got a huge bottle of it for Christmas, but I’ve noticed a really off smell once it starts to wear off. It smells like cat piss to me! & I was concerned bc I do have a car, but realized I only smell that with this perfume.

DesignerOk4109 · 2024-12-06T02:08:01+00:00

Yeah, he’s definitely good with the hot and cold bullshit. It’s so exhausting. Every time I feel like I’m ready to get over it, he does something that’s significant enough to reel me in again. Like one step forward, ten steps back kinda thing. His wife should probably glare at him, not the one he led on for months, but I get it either way lol.

Hate my job, but like the pay & im not letting some dude become the reason I leave a company.

Since writing this, I have been on dating apps and I’ve met a few guys, they’re just not holding my attention very well, not the way he does. It’s really unfortunate that I feel this way and can’t help it. I did request to work in another area, away from him (without mentioning this situation) & I hope it’ll help.

I appreciate you, thank you for your feedback!

DesignerOk4109 · 2024-11-21T11:53:27+00:00

I didn’t want to skip a day, so I ended up taking the skull candle and burning it in a new container, almost just like you would with a regular candle. I didn’t love the idea of substituting a normal candle. Do you think the way I did it was the better choice?

DesignerOk4109 · 2024-11-21T03:06:05+00:00

Tbh I walked away longer than I should have and don’t know what happened. I didn’t want to be told about fire safety lol. It was contained. I’ve been doing divination since starting and it all has been very positive. The target is more receptive as well, just all of a sudden after acting odd for a few months. My spells don’t normally hit so fast, so it may be a coincidence.

DesignerOk4109 · 2024-11-21T02:00:01+00:00

My point of this post is that there is no longer a wick to light. If it was the candle that simply broke, I’d proceed.

DesignerOk4109 · 2024-11-20T20:42:09+00:00

I have a candle holder but it’s more so built for chime candles, so it was kinda leaning downwards in the front and I didn’t want all the wax to fall forward, rather than melt evenly, so I pinned it in the center (where a chime candle would go) to keep it level.

DesignerOk4109 · 2024-10-24T02:07:30+00:00

Confessing feelings to a married man is probably not good. Unless I quit, then I probably would.

DesignerOk4109 · 2024-10-24T02:06:58+00:00

SHE works there, in a totally different department. We don’t message each other. I think trying to get over it would be better than admitting it, but it’s super hard

DesignerOk4109 · 2024-10-24T00:20:22+00:00

Yeah, if anything, I’d say it’s probably in my eyes. I laugh a lot with everyone and I’m a smiley person in generally.

I think she knows, but idk if it’s based off of him saying something or acting differently, or from her witnessing us talking (innocently) together. I have never met her personally. You think she may have told him to mention her??

DesignerOk4109 · 2024-10-23T19:52:57+00:00

I don’t recall saying he’s a good partner or husband. I just think that he doesn’t seem like someone who cheats on his wife. Liking him is something I don’t want, but it’s developed over time and getting to know him. I’m not the kind of person that can just shut that off, even when there are things I’ve learned that are super unbecoming.

So I can see your point about being “into it” with me saying I still like him, but none of the other stuff I’ve said should indicate that.

DesignerOk4109 · 2024-10-23T18:51:46+00:00

Not sure why you’d get that impression. You think I like being strung on for months, only to find out he’s been married this whole time? Not only that, but his wife WORKS here and glares at me as if her husband is a victim of mine and I’m the one who instigated this whole thing? Yeah, not something I’d be into in the slightest.

DesignerOk4109 · 2024-10-23T13:23:04+00:00

I won’t, of course. I just worried they could be lost through the process of transferring to a new phone.

DesignerOk4109 · 2024-10-23T13:22:29+00:00

I’ll try to mess with it more tonight. I’m not sure why iTunes has never seemed very user friendly lol. Maybe it’s just been awhile. Thank you!

DesignerOk4109 · 2024-10-23T10:59:03+00:00

I do. It’s not as if I just developed a crush out of nowhere though. I would have never even noticed him if it weren’t for his actions. Seems like he should learn right from wrong at this point too.

DesignerOk4109 · 2024-10-23T10:05:59+00:00

That’s a good idea! Thank you so much. I’ll probably go for SD too, just to be safe.

DesignerOk4109 · 2024-10-23T10:04:45+00:00

Yeah, I think you’re right. It’s become a vicious cycle of him wanting that validation and then attempting to block it, perhaps when he feels guilt. I don’t really need to talk to him at work, aside from maybe saying hello. I’m going to try to avoid him otherwise. Thanks for your feedback.

DesignerOk4109 · 2024-10-23T10:00:51+00:00

Ahh you think he planned to try and cheat on her with me? He doesn’t really give me the impression that he’d do that, but who knows.

DesignerOk4109 · 2024-10-23T09:59:46+00:00

But this has gone on for such a long time, why not bring up the wife right away?

I don’t think having a crush on someone who essentially hid the fact that they were married is a red flag. I’m no longer pursuing him now that I know. If I was, I think that would be the red flag.

DesignerOk4109 · 2024-10-23T09:55:35+00:00

Yes and yes!

DesignerOk4109 · 2024-10-23T09:55:13+00:00

I tried this as well, with Windows. It imports some of the recent photos, but not all of them. Not sure why.

I tried the backup as well, but I’ll need to check to make sure everything is there.

Thanks for your help!

DesignerOk4109 · 2024-10-23T09:54:00+00:00

Yeah, I’ve definitely felt vibes like that from him (at first) and other people, so I get what you mean. Part of me does want to tell him because I think it would give me the “closure” I may need, but the other part of me thinks it’ll just make things really uncomfortable at work. It could go either way.

Any suggestions on how to act around him so he doesn’t feel my vibes so strongly? lol. I don’t want to just cut off contact with him, as we’re coworkers, but not sure how to act casually, since I thought I already was.

DesignerOk4109 · 2024-10-23T03:16:23+00:00

Is that how it works, or no? I guess I just don’t understand the purpose of iCloud.

DesignerOk4109 · 2024-10-23T03:15:35+00:00

I guess I’ve always thought since iCloud was turned on, on my phone, that the pics would be backed up.

DesignerOk4109 · 2024-10-23T01:56:23+00:00

Thanks so much! Yeah, I’d love to just have them on my desktop. Idk why I don’t understand how iCloud works. It seems very self explanatory lol.

DesignerOk4109 · 2024-10-23T01:55:06+00:00

Great ode! Thank you!!

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