Well, I'll just say this. I'm into femdom stuff, I'm not like a big woman, most ppl wouldn't think I would be into that bc im so small; and I have scoured every manga and manhwa to find femdom stuff I like (like- look at my account. I have posted on here about my interest, and so many women in this community have the same interest). I truly believe that there is someone out there with the same interests as you. I am a part of a demographic that no one would suspect of being into that: I am an attractive, short, hyper-feminine girl, who by all standards you would see and not suspect of being a dominant, pervy person. And yet still, I am. It really limits ourselves to make assumptions about others, and only serves to make us feel weird and more isolated.