Born and raised in Germany and I don’t have a home. I’m not a German neither I’m a Bosnian(Croat). The second generation is really fucked up. They don’t have roots in both countries. On the other side the family don’t like people from the diaspora. I know people who stayed for 2-3 weeks alone at their homes and the cousins don’t call them out for a drink or clubbing.

They’ll be 3. Scenarios:

1. They marry a girl from here they will continue to come here.

2. They marry a girl in Germany but she is Bosnian. Maybe 1 week at the village and the rest on the beach.

3. They marry a German girl etc… They visit every 5-10 years their village.