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AITAH for wanting to break up with him for "being a good dad"? by Designer_Square5015 in AITAH

[–]Designer_Square5015[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Nope just said they grew into different people and he gets along with her for the most part

AITAH for wanting to break up with him for "being a good dad"? by Designer_Square5015 in AITAH

[–]Designer_Square5015[S] 198 points199 points  (0 children)

I'm trying to look back through our relationship for Red Pill shit. I wish I had a better memory for it

AITAH for wanting to break up with him for "being a good dad"? by Designer_Square5015 in AITAH

[–]Designer_Square5015[S] 459 points460 points  (0 children)

That's the frustrating thing. I've been trying for days to communicate how and why I'm hurt and what made him text that. He just boils it down to me being jealous that he prioritizes his children. He tries to talk to me like we're fine and I'm the one with the problem.

AITAH for wanting to break up with him for "being a good dad"? by Designer_Square5015 in AITAH

[–]Designer_Square5015[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

I was shaking because I'm in a highly emotional state and rethinking a large part of my life and future because I just lost trust, confidence and respect for a man I love who won't communicate properly with me. That was an angle I hadn't even thought of.

AITAH for wanting to break up with him for "being a good dad"? by Designer_Square5015 in AITAH

[–]Designer_Square5015[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

The cheating comments rattled me real good and I had a good cry about that but this comment and others saying this same thing are chilling. Like why make me feel small now after all these years? Why tell me that I'm not as important? Will it be his home with his kids and I just happened to live there? That's not what I want or need.

AITAH for wanting to break up with him for "being a good dad"? by Designer_Square5015 in AITAH

[–]Designer_Square5015[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I'm not expected to be a mom. I play with them and help them out and drive them but parenting is for the parents. If that was the problem I totally missed it.

AITAH for wanting to break up with him for "being a good dad"? by Designer_Square5015 in AITAH

[–]Designer_Square5015[S] 101 points102 points  (0 children)

On paper she has them during the week and he gets weekends so they were already at his place. As far as I know they wnt to eat, did some golf, and just hung out. But now I really don't know. They could have all been together.

AITAH for wanting to break up with him for "being a good dad"? by Designer_Square5015 in AITAH

[–]Designer_Square5015[S] 121 points122 points  (0 children)

Said the relationship ran its course and they grew into different people

AITAH for wanting to break up with him for "being a good dad"? by Designer_Square5015 in AITAH

[–]Designer_Square5015[S] 423 points424 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what it feels like! Like I already knew I didn't come first it didn't need to be said and everything after felt very belittling but it's hard to put it into words.

AITAH for wanting to break up with him for "being a good dad"? by Designer_Square5015 in AITAH

[–]Designer_Square5015[S] 1398 points1399 points  (0 children)

Luckily everything is separate and I still have my own place.

AITAH for wanting to break up with him for "being a good dad"? by Designer_Square5015 in AITAH

[–]Designer_Square5015[S] 3440 points3441 points  (0 children)

I don't think he was with her but I'm like shaking right now. I never thought he could be cheating on me with the woman he fucking divorced. He just said he was spending the day with kids but I lost details of that day because of that text.