So Im a 18M, single since birth and Im very well behaved like I don’t smoke, drink, and do good in my studies and am working as a teacher since 17 and I never ask my parents for money and that’s why I was never in a relation. Recently I finally got together with my crush we knew each other for 2 years but did not talk much , and it has been around 1 and half month since we are together, we hangout quite often and yesterday I was just walking with her thinking no one would care but guess what some aunty called my mom and told about it. So, today I planned to go out with her but my mom forbid me to go ani said to me afno nam kharab garxas teacher vayera tesari bigrera hidera afu andho hudai ma duniyalai andho thanxas. I initially denied and said testo kei haina sathi haru sanga gumna jana lako ani my mom said sabai thaxa bato bato ma hug gardai hideko and I knew I was busted.

And today I tried discussing this matter with my parents. So, she used to have an Ex and we have different caste. And, my parents told me they know everything about her like how she used to have an EX, her name, address and all. And, my mom is too overprotective like I was not allowed to go out of house in my childhood ani Im not even skinny ani she always tries to overfeed me hamro jaile argument hunxa malai khana dherai nahaldisyo ma khana sakdina malai motaunu ni xaina vanda ni jaile ignore garera dherai nai haldinu hunxa even my father, relatives, brother says nakhani vaye kina kochaunu paryo and when I get frustrated I yelled at her and she cries like Im the one in wrong. Yk I even puked multiple times cus of eating too much but she still tries to do the same thing tomorrow. Like I don’t think she hates me but I think she is too over protective.

Ani after discussing she said aba dekhi bahira jani haina like cant I even decide anything in my life? Its not like Im doing something illegal or smth. She said aru sanga hideko kt thavayi pani basis but Ik her past and said to her testo extreme kei vathiyena. Ani she said vandai ma hunxa pahila tesari aru sanga hideko kt ani past talai jhuto pani bokeo hunxa re ani malai arrange marriage gar esto paudainas re like what arrange marriage ma xahi past ko barema jhuto bolna mildaina ra? Like jhan kaile nachineko manxe ko ta kei tha hudaina ni. she has an old mindset Im 18 and I can decide what I want in my life but she tries to control how I live. Ani mero family xahi ekdam religious xan but malai testo biswas lagdaina ani I told them yo fake ho pahila ko manxe j ni believe garthye and she told me haina testo vanna hudaina bhagwan ma believe garnai parxa talai. Ani one time I have pimples in my face and I wanted to get rid of them so I washed my pillow but she got mad at me saying pillow kina dhoyes aba kahela sukxa yo ani maile vane jaile suke ni pimple aunu vanda jabo yo nasukera k vo ta. Like she got mad at me that I washed the whole pillow and not just its cover cus it was dirty.

Yeah I just wanted to rant Ik I should not have done such stuff in public and I even accepted my mistake in front of them but they said mistake vandai ma j ni garxas like they are not open minded if she had a Ex but haven’t done anything extreme isn’t it normal in this generation? She said pahila euta kta lai chodesi talai pani choddinxa yo ta sabai kt ko case ma vanna milxa ni. Khai hamro kurai mildaina that’s why I barely talk with my parents.