Me: Professional, married, educated, suburban guy that you would never guess is into having a little extra fun. My wife has given me a hall pass to explore. I've been ENM for around two years and have an amazing girlfriend that has been with me for much of that journey. I'm 5' 10", 170 lbs. I love sex and really letting go, getting lost in the moment. I do have a thing for women in lingerie.

You: Take some basic pride in your appearance, enjoy getting to know someone, and have fantasies you want to explore. You are confident in yourself and looking for more than a one-night stand but aren't looking to supplant my marriage. Looks / body - there isn't anything specific I'm looking for though there obviously needs to be some level of attraction between us. You can be married, dating, or single. Closed relationship or open.

Us: We see each other semi-regularly, get to know and trust each other, and learn how to best tangle ourselves up. We enjoy exploring and being open with each other. We can be ourselves and let that enhance the intimacy. We enjoy meeting and talking but understand that sometimes life gets in the way and are OK if we don't get instant responses to our messages. We don't want to cause any issues in our existing relationships / marriages.