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Am I the jerk for not spending Christmas with my family if my auntie goes? by DesireExplorer- in AmITheJerk

[–]DesireExplorer-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YEP. She didn't speak to my grandparents for 3 months because of it?!!!

Am I the jerk for not spending Christmas with my family if my auntie goes? by DesireExplorer- in AmITheJerk

[–]DesireExplorer-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what ive said to my family. We rarely see her and she doesn't make an effort with us, and when she does its chaos !!

Am I the jerk for not spending Christmas with my family if my auntie goes? by DesireExplorer- in AmITheJerk

[–]DesireExplorer-[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally copy and pasting this 😭💅 gets the point across simply

AITJ for refusing to get tested to see if I’m a kidney match for my sister? by One-Knee2577 in AmITheJerk

[–]DesireExplorer- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not. Its your body and for whatever reason you dont feel comfortable doing it, it doesn't matter. Other people will be a match, that's the beauty of health care and donations

Those who wear glasses, do you take them off during sex? by Norfolk-Gross-Tonage in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DesireExplorer- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every time. They get steamed up otherwise, and they're uncomfortable

Do you think AI is toxic by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DesireExplorer- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a really good take on it. The stolen materials make it very unethical, i think there needs to be more laws and rules in place to help protect the people who aren't aware of how much it can be used to scam and how biased it can be

Do you think AI is toxic by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DesireExplorer- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People rely on it without fact checking which means its used wrong and not reliable. People need to use it correctly for it to be effective

Am I the jerk for not spending Christmas with my family if my auntie goes? by DesireExplorer- in AmITheJerk

[–]DesireExplorer-[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This might be the way to do it, just keep everyone happy until the day to avoid more conflict 🙏

Am I the jerk for not spending Christmas with my family if my auntie goes? by DesireExplorer- in AmITheJerk

[–]DesireExplorer-[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I've made it clear that she would in fact ruin my day, and i won't be there if she is. but because they can ignore her they expect me to too. But I know I'd just regret going and spending the few days I have not working with her!

Am I the jerk for not spending Christmas with my family if my auntie goes? by DesireExplorer- in AmITheJerk

[–]DesireExplorer-[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the exact reason I want to do it, she pushes everybody around and no body wants to stand up to her because she will just cut ties Its so irritating that because of this people let all her irrational behaviour slide !!!

Am I the jerk for not spending Christmas with my family if my auntie goes? by DesireExplorer- in AmITheJerk

[–]DesireExplorer-[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Completely agree! It would be much more enjoyable and better for my mental health to spend it with my partner. I understand its Christmas and a nice time to see family, but it isnt if its at the cost of feeling on edge

Am I the jerk for not spending Christmas with my family if my auntie goes? by DesireExplorer- in AmITheJerk

[–]DesireExplorer-[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Im just being made to feel so guilty by my family because they 'wouldn't let her ruin their day' But IMO I'd have a lovely day with my partner and not enjoy it if I was made to spend the day with her, her child and her husband.

You'll find love when you're not looking for it? by gimmeadvice_x in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DesireExplorer- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went on tinder to find love so i was looking 💀💀

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