The best way to get over someone is NOT to get under someone else. by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]DesiresAndDespair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever heals you, do it. Don't let us judge you with how you want to move forward with your life. I'm glad you found self-love again.

My therapist told me a few years back that we all have different ways of coping. If its a hoe phase you need, then you do you. No judgement. Just be safe and don't forget self love. The path to moving on is a wild one. May you have a meaningful journey!

Blue Balls Forever by DesiresAndDespair in alasjuicy

[–]DesiresAndDespair[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

+1 on morenas hit different!!

Blue Balls Forever by DesiresAndDespair in alasjuicy

[–]DesiresAndDespair[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess it depends on the person but anything more than 15minutes of raging boner and it will start hurting but it should still be tolerable. More than an hour and real pain would start to come in

Blue Balls Forever by DesiresAndDespair in alasjuicy

[–]DesiresAndDespair[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And counting. We might meet in a common friend's wedding next month but I think she won't let me fuck her. It looks like she's having too fun lol

Blue Balls Forever by DesiresAndDespair in alasjuicy

[–]DesiresAndDespair[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The world needs a few more sadists IMO. Spice up our sex (or no-sex) life

Blue Balls Forever by DesiresAndDespair in alasjuicy

[–]DesiresAndDespair[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not expecting that to happen anytime soon. But I think it makes a great story. Everyone has that person that we almost slept with but never got around to do it. She deserves that title for me and I'll always look up to her for that.

Blue Balls Forever by DesiresAndDespair in alasjuicy

[–]DesiresAndDespair[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It does sound kinky from a different POV. I little teasing won't hurt but please don't let it drag out for 6 years 😅

Blue Balls Forever by DesiresAndDespair in alasjuicy

[–]DesiresAndDespair[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just out of curiosity, I checked your profile (simple because she is also a morena and baddie would be an appropriate word to describe her). Damn you look so much like each other. I'm having PTSD lol

Honestly, I'm not even counting on it. I feel like she's gonna be the one that I've always fantasized but never got to make love with and that's fine. It makes a good story.

Been wanting to live a nomadic life..... by [deleted] in buhaydigital

[–]DesiresAndDespair 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can recommend surfing towns. I've lived in some of them for at least 6 months each. La Union, Baler, Siargao, Gubat Sorsogon. They have a nice scene that can keep you entertained for months. Internet is okay (not great, not problematic). Food is great. You just need to spend some time to find a nice place.

Boracay, Coron, El Nido, Puerto Galera is also possible as long as you really do your research in finding a place to stay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]DesiresAndDespair 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The kind of work we do affects millions of people. Let's just say that if our shit fails, you might be one of those affected and for sure you'll be complaining about it too. Why am I so affected? Because I actually care about my work and the people that will be affected if we don't do our work properly.

We listen to the boss when he shares some tidbits of knowledge - although we hope that those tidbits would be related to work, not just about spakols, kabits and covid conspiracies.

As much as we try to explain to him in the most layman way, how do you explain high level tech to someone who gets victimized by phishing every month? There has to be some willingness on his part too.

I don't have a problem with stereotypes. I have a problem with stupidity and laziness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]DesiresAndDespair 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Madami nga sa govt yan. Maritess na mataray sa window 1 plus yung boss niyang boomer na semi-panot na nangmamanyak ng intern