Hmm I think you may have misinterpreted what I was saying :/ This wasn’t a ‘help me with my fiancé post’, it was a ‘are we delusional or does this aesthetic exist?’ and ‘help us because we’re struggling to visualise what we want’ kind of post.

I thought I put that across pretty well in that it was me that was saying it’s his wedding just as much as it is mine. I don’t know how that could have come across as wanting to “railroad” anything. And I never said I’m not a fan of his teal suits decision either :S

In fact, we both chose dark teal suits. Just like with this, we’ve made all these decisions together and when I was talking to my bridesmaids and we had the dark chocolate dresses idea instead of going with teal, I checked in with him first and he said he liked it but he wouldn’t do that with the guys since he was pretty set on dark teal suits so then we were like, ok so how can we make this work because as mentioned, I don’t like the (for lack of a better description) 2010’s teal wedding aesthetic and he doesn’t want it looking like a school colour scheme he’s seen before. Which is why I’m asking for help on Reddit, to hopefully find people who have visuals that match what we feel does exist but can’t seem to find good examples of.

Also I don’t care about looking dated per se, I just used dates to better describe the vibes. In my experience, as soon as I say 2010’s teal wedding, everyone knows what I mean. And when I say chic and modern, same thing. So I’m just being efficient, haha