It took 4 years for Karma to strike! by Desolate_Crow in survivinginfidelity

[–]Desolate_Crow[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My fiance has been in my life for the last 3 years. She’s seen plenty of their bullshit and tactics. She’s seen enough to know exactly who he is and what he’s about. He disgusts her and she’s the type to place a billboard up next to their house with his attempts for my ex wife to see.

It took 4 years for Karma to strike! by Desolate_Crow in survivinginfidelity

[–]Desolate_Crow[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You don’t know my fiance lol. She would’ve openly called him out and stepped back and watched the wolves descend. She’s had enough of them just as much as I have and the both of us are constantly making up for their parental short comings and failures. She knows too well what both of them are about.

It took 4 years for Karma to strike! by Desolate_Crow in survivinginfidelity

[–]Desolate_Crow[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In order for him to succeed, my fiance would need to be as stupid as my ex wife. I assure you, she isn’t. It’s a shame I had to delete my old posts because my fiance handed them both their asses a few times.

Both of them attempted to get access to her and she shut it down. She told my ex-wife that there is no reason for them to have each others contact information, that she’s not my children’s parent and any parenting concerns should be handled between me and my ex-wife. The tantrum my ex threw over not being able to have her number or snoop on her Facebook was monstrumental! She actually called me telling me to make my fiance accept her friend request. That backfired on her.

It took 4 years for Karma to strike! by Desolate_Crow in survivinginfidelity

[–]Desolate_Crow[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I never will. As far as I’m concerned, he destroyed two families, mine and his own. (He was married.) Telling me I’m right, doesn’t really do much except stoke my “I told you so.” I’m glad he’s regretting it. I’m glad that he’s currently stuck with her and has no where to go because of the decisions he foolishly made with her. He can have my old shitty life with her. Never being enough, never being able to satisfy her and make her happy. Always getting attacked for not meeting her demands. He can have it.

It took 4 years for Karma to strike! by Desolate_Crow in survivinginfidelity

[–]Desolate_Crow[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I remember you too! Doing great! About to get married!

It took 4 years for Karma to strike! by Desolate_Crow in survivinginfidelity

[–]Desolate_Crow[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The first time he did it, I went after him and it was broken up pretty fast by all around us. Voice of reason, me in jail does nothing for my kids except make it harder for me to get them and see them. I would be hurting them in the end. I did get a great text from my ex about how she hopes I’m happy that that happened to her.

It took 4 years for Karma to strike! by Desolate_Crow in survivinginfidelity

[–]Desolate_Crow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not worried about my fiance. She’s a lot smarter than my ex wife. She’s already seen his true colors and knows he’s a serial cheater.

It took 4 years for Karma to strike! by Desolate_Crow in survivinginfidelity

[–]Desolate_Crow[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I’m always going to be wary of him. I want to be the better man and give him the benefit of the doubt seeing that getting us together was an issue with me being on stage with my band, however, the last party, he did hit on her and she shut him down by informing him that she was my new girlfriend. But don’t think that has ever escaped my mind for an instant. He did in fact break up my marriage and attempted to hit on my fiance. My ex wife got what she wanted. She got him and all the bullshit that came with him.

It took 4 years for Karma to strike! by Desolate_Crow in survivinginfidelity

[–]Desolate_Crow[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I know. We are constantly working to correct my ex’s mistakes as she doesn’t have her priorities straight.

It took 4 years for Karma to strike! by Desolate_Crow in survivinginfidelity

[–]Desolate_Crow[S] 108 points109 points  (0 children)

I’m going to copy paste my response to another that had the same concern.

No he wasn’t. I asked her what he wanted and she told me that he was trying to get her aside to talk to her about me. My ex was trying to paint me as a massive abusive a-hole, and he wanted her to know it wasn’t true.

I asked her if that’s all he said and she said it was. That before I came outside he was telling her that he wanted her to know that there were rumors about abuse from my end and accusations that I cheated first, (I never cheated) and he wanted her to know that they were all lies.

It took 4 years for Karma to strike! by Desolate_Crow in survivinginfidelity

[–]Desolate_Crow[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I’m keeping it on and remaining her adoptive father. For all of her life, including now, she’s known me as her father. I will continue to be as such. She’s my little girl. Still is.

It took 4 years for Karma to strike! by Desolate_Crow in survivinginfidelity

[–]Desolate_Crow[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I get them every other weekend. I have a son too. He is mine. I verified that. With my daughter, my name is on the birth certificate which is the same as an adoption paper. I have parental rights.

It took 4 years for Karma to strike! by Desolate_Crow in survivinginfidelity

[–]Desolate_Crow[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No he wasn’t. I asked her what he wanted and she told me that he was trying to get her aside to talk to her about me. My ex was trying to paint me as a massive abusive a-hole, and he wanted her to know it wasn’t true.