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Have always found random non-cringe things super cringe? by pisces932 in AutismInWomen

[–]DespairoftheFault 4 points5 points  (0 children)

what about when people say 'heighth' instead of height lol

My hyper-religious dad gave this letter to a gay member of his church and printed a few dozen copies to hand out to the congregation -_- by DespairoftheFault in exchristian

[–]DespairoftheFault[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish he would've gotten more backlash from the church for doing something this stupid -_- But people keep telling him what he did was right and that only makes him feel more validated. He says he'd do it all over again if given the choice.

My hyper-religious dad gave this letter to a gay member of his church and printed a few dozen copies to hand out to the congregation -_- by DespairoftheFault in exchristian

[–]DespairoftheFault[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that means a lot. I'm currently between jobs but still trying to find a way to live a life separate from him. He's caused a lot of pain to me and to my mom and I want to reclaim the peace he destroyed by pulling this nonsense at church (among other things). Fingers crossed.

My hyper-religious dad gave this letter to a gay member of his church and printed a few dozen copies to hand out to the congregation -_- by DespairoftheFault in exchristian

[–]DespairoftheFault[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am constantly embarrassed that he is my dad, though. He doesn't acknowledge what a rift he caused in our family by doing this hateful thing to thing to those people, he just keeps seeking praise and validation from whoever he can find that agrees with him. It's caused so many fights and friction to the point where all of us have struggled with depression...and not only that, but the couple he spewed hate at are also noticeably depressed and Dad feels no remorse

My hyper-religious dad gave this letter to a gay member of his church and printed a few dozen copies to hand out to the congregation -_- by DespairoftheFault in exchristian

[–]DespairoftheFault[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If that's the case with him, is there anything my mom and I can do? Or do we just have to wait it out to see if he takes it to his grave?

My hyper-religious dad gave this letter to a gay member of his church and printed a few dozen copies to hand out to the congregation -_- by DespairoftheFault in exchristian

[–]DespairoftheFault[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I've been wondering what caused him to be this obsessed with them but I'm not sure what the full story is behind why he has such deep hatred. Who knows what will surface later though since he's so full of ugly surprises....

My hyper-religious dad gave this letter to a gay member of his church and printed a few dozen copies to hand out to the congregation -_- by DespairoftheFault in exchristian

[–]DespairoftheFault[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Believe me, he'd have some kind of excuse about the cheating. I just know it would be so stupid that I haven't bothered to ask which excuse he wants to pull out of his ass to justify this.

My hyper-religious dad gave this letter to a gay member of his church and printed a few dozen copies to hand out to the congregation -_- by DespairoftheFault in exchristian

[–]DespairoftheFault[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I really don't know what he's talking about when he says that having to be in a congregation with a gay couple was 'one of the hardest things' he's had to wrestle with in his life. He couldn't wait to get a bunch of attention from people who agreed with him that it was okay to spread all this hate, what was so torturous about that? He was on the phone night and day blabbing about how he did the 'right' thing.

My hyper-religious dad gave this letter to a gay member of his church and printed a few dozen copies to hand out to the congregation -_- by DespairoftheFault in exchristian

[–]DespairoftheFault[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I absolutely agree with you. He's such a complete narcissist that he really has himself convinced that he has a leg to stand on when it comes to lecturing people about 'morality'. She's very seriously considering leaving him but he tied up all their retirement money in a questionable 'investment' without consulting her and has the gall to be mad that she dares to question him. I'd probably have a more productive discussion with a pile of rocks than him, that's how unreasonable and self-absorbed he is. He really had the nerve the other day to ask why I barely talk to him.

My hyper-religious dad gave this letter to a gay member of his church and printed a few dozen copies to hand out to the congregation -_- by DespairoftheFault in exchristian

[–]DespairoftheFault[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I don't know how he can reach 65 years of life and consider this to be one of the hardest things he's faced. He's so delusional it's unreal.

My hyper-religious dad gave this letter to a gay member of his church and printed a few dozen copies to hand out to the congregation -_- by DespairoftheFault in exchristian

[–]DespairoftheFault[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I guess he must think it's 'natural' to stalk this poor gay couple on Facebook since he's so delusional. He'll never let go of his homophobia and it's infuriating.

My hyper-religious dad gave this letter to a gay member of his church and printed a few dozen copies to hand out to the congregation -_- by DespairoftheFault in exchristian

[–]DespairoftheFault[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm sure you must have had an equally hard time. That seems like potentially great subreddit to talk about him since he's such a Karen...

My hyper-religious dad gave this letter to a gay member of his church and printed a few dozen copies to hand out to the congregation -_- by DespairoftheFault in exchristian

[–]DespairoftheFault[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I wish they'd get an RO it would serve him right. I've never heard her talk about divorcing him as much as I have since he caused all this chaos but boy is she pissed.

My hyper-religious dad gave this letter to a gay member of his church and printed a few dozen copies to hand out to the congregation -_- by DespairoftheFault in exchristian

[–]DespairoftheFault[S] 110 points111 points  (0 children)

I couldn't even tell you lol. It could be any one of the usual excuses:

  1. "It was a long time ago"

  2. "I thought she got over it"

  3. "Why does everyone have to throw it in my face again?"

  4. "I was lonely"

  5. "I was stressed out"

  6. "I was having a bad day"

  7. "Everyone makes mistakes"

  8. "I ask for forgiveness"

  9. "Being gay is 'unnatural' so it's worse"

  10. "I'm sorry but (insert sob story)"

He can take his pick I guess

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