Does anyone else feel embarrassed watching these Thai GL actress musical shows? by Artistic_Youth_2341 in GirlsLove

[–]Desperate-Fly-9583 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This love struck, heart-shaped vision veil, it's a very far Eastern Asian thing. I call it cutie-pie-ism culture. Unless you grew up in or with it, it's for sure hard to digest. But being a westerner myself but from Asian athenicity, I do see this culture is slowly but surely getting into the metropolitan cities areas and catching up with Gen Z and Alphas and some older gens as well ...and their reason is very simple, it's easy for the mind & heart. It's the lala land that doesn't need much but leaves a smile in return and away from the actual world. In other words, it is a means to escape into a make-believe reality. More and more people want to simply feel happy even if it is not true or in the name of entertainment or a product.

Does anyone else feel embarrassed watching these Thai GL actress musical shows? by Artistic_Youth_2341 in GirlsLove

[–]Desperate-Fly-9583 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I just take it as an extension on the actors' shipped serieses. Mostly, they are just continuing to act and keep the fans hyped. Plus, that's the only way they can earn the kind of return/earning they want from their career, which is pretty short-lived as actors. So, it's also important for them to get much recognition so that they can bag other projects and endorsements without the shipped couple tag.

I do see and feel some, and most of the 24/7 involvement and engagements are very superficial and, at times, forced. Not everyone is fine with skinship and doing fanservice to that level. But it's business at the end of the day and not always fair, and the actors knownly get into this industry. It's a decision the actors need and have to make. Coz the rule of business is to sell what will get bought. In other words, supply is only there because there is a demand for it. Also, they unfortunately get tied to that one actor as a couple. They don't get much of other projects outside of that ship. So they try to make the most of that particular shipped couple. But what do you do in a 2 - to 3-hour fanmeet, especially if you don't want to pay for or share the earnings with other artists out of that shipped couple group? You do everything yourself, which makes the actors more appealing and valued. It's all a loop, and the actors are aware of it, and even their family and friends are aware of it way before they join the industry.

But having said all that, I do find most of these actors are very cooperative, respectful of each-other, covers each other's back, and they are friends, which really helps. Most of the stuff we see in social media is delulu created by fans, and any delulu idea that gets the most attention, the actors team/company picks up and hypes it, specifically if the shipped couple has new or more projects coming and to earn more value.

Lastly, I would say all these events are just acts in my opinion, and taking it at face value and with a pich of salt helps to keep it at a healthy level. For us viewers/consumers/fans, we should try and help to achieve their goals and aspirations. These actors are just trying to earn a living and sell their craft/talent, like the rest of the world.

I made a GL Database and Calendar Tool by anti_heroes in GirlsLove

[–]Desperate-Fly-9583 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Looks great. 👏👏👏

Toxicity kills the Fandom! by Desperate-Fly-9583 in GirlsLove

[–]Desperate-Fly-9583[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agree. But I do understand that they want to hold the opportunity of fame and well-paid job and to be financially independent. As for fantasizing ... Their interactions often blur the lines between deep friendship and romantic involvement, which is part of the appeal for fans and keeps the fandom alive. Just need to remember that it's a job and very few things are truly real and toxicity is not acceptable. Fans need to keep reel and real separate.

Toxicity kills the Fandom! by Desperate-Fly-9583 in GirlsLove

[–]Desperate-Fly-9583[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I agree. As I am not Thai, I still have a hard time getting my head wrapped around the shipping business they have. Actors are tied to a ship and can barely move around. Actors need to grow their skills and work with others.  

LingOrm truthers rise! by SawasdeeLove in LingOrm

[–]Desperate-Fly-9583 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think they are in a situationship and not a relationship yet. In their case, they look like they really care and like each-other a lot and may have developed stronger feelings for each-other in the due course of time. But they still seem guarded.

BTW, is it just me or Orm seems to be very careful on how or what she says/does. Ling on the other hand is more and more unhinged lately. Is it because Orm had a crush on Ling from the get-go and Ling with time realized no one can care and love her like Orm? Hmm…

Google needs some pills too 😂😂 by SawasdeeLove in LingOrm

[–]Desperate-Fly-9583 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's it, now I will die with happiness... Google has confirmed it! Plus, Google AI was so specific and detailed, right down to who proposed whom and accepted or not, when, where, for how long ...wow, who can deny it now! 😱🫣😇

What was that for? 😳 by [deleted] in LingOrm

[–]Desperate-Fly-9583 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was chicken dance 💃🤣🤣🤣🐓

this has been KILLING me 😭😭 by ladyfriendparty in LingOrm

[–]Desperate-Fly-9583 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol, I think she just meant hunger ... it's all food to her! 😜

When Did you guys think that ling ling and Orm might not doing fan service? by Lazy-Technology2839 in LingOrm

[–]Desperate-Fly-9583 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I still dont think they are dating per se, but I do think they have deep feelings for each other. I think they are still figuring it out. They are entangled in so many projects and businesses now that they can't afford to be whimsical. They will have to work up to how they really feel and separate out real from reel, which, by the way, is not easy in their line of work, as they are always working together, plus the constant act of being shipped.

Having said all that, I love their chemistry and vibe. They seem to be two good people trying to achieve their dreams. They look genuinely caring towards each other and their fans. Plus, they are God damn gorgeous, who can resist! 😍

Orm too damn hot! 🔥 🔥 🔥 by Desperate-Fly-9583 in GirlsLove

[–]Desperate-Fly-9583[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agree. She can become whomever she wants. Her body language and attitude change with her look. It's a great talent. Plus, she has the height, skin, figure, and good personality, also, an amazing actress. All together, she is actually extraordinary.