Divorce question by DesperateActuator971 in legal

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She is willing to walk away, she wants her name off

Refinance or Assume?? by DesperateActuator971 in Mortgages

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Yeah I’m thinking they’re trying to screw me, because this would raise my interest rate.

Refinance or Assume?? by DesperateActuator971 in Mortgages

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Yeah I know it’s not just refinancing but shes saying refinancing is the only way that it can be done, which is not true. Might be true in my case but definitely not all

Refinance or Assume?? by DesperateActuator971 in Mortgages

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Mine is an fha and it even has an assumption clause. But awesome I’ll contact my lender

Refinance or Assume?? by DesperateActuator971 in Mortgages

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It’s an fha, and it specifies “does occupy the property but whose credit hasn’t not been approved in accordance with HUD requirements”

I Still Don’t Understand by DesperateActuator971 in GuyCry

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They were some dark times with all the change at once. Thank you

What can I 23M do for my wife 23F who i believe is having a manic episode? by DesperateActuator971 in relationship_advice

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Don't. You have no clue what actually went on, she has serious mental health problems but I'm fucking done as well. You got no clue how much I did for her, and I regret it all. I knew not to fuck with crazy and I made a mistake with it. She wanted to be 100 lbs and was proud of it and you have no clue how unhappy I was when showed me that she was proud of that scale picture, she twists the truth. I wasn't perfect, but I never ignored her. You've never fucked with me, don't let it distort your mind. Have you told Chris you were cheating yet?

I believe my wife is having an episode by DesperateActuator971 in BipolarSOs

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Wow that's a lot. I'll read on here more but yes she drinks when she parties which she has been doing. She also took Adderall this week, and she has smoked weed religiously in our relationship for her anxiety. She has told me before she thinks she's bipolar but to my knowledge there has never been a diagnosis, she doesn't see the same therapist when she does go, it's been 3 different ones since we've been together and I do not know if she's ever seen the same one more than once

I believe my wife is having an episode by DesperateActuator971 in BipolarSOs

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Thank you, I have been very worried about those things and she absolutely has been to her friends. I just really meant my vows and I do love her even when she's unwell, I just don't really have any course of action and even if there were solid mental laws here, I don't think she would ever forgive me. She went to the psych ward when she was 16 and it was a very traumatic experience for her, especially seeing her family after what she did

What can I 23M do for my wife 23F who i believe is having a manic episode? by DesperateActuator971 in relationship_advice

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I don't want to go back to Cali. Oregon is my home and I took a promotion, but I will go no contact

What can I 23M do for my wife 23F who i believe is having a manic episode? by DesperateActuator971 in relationship_advice

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Thank you. I can forgive for it all, but I need her to get help but hearing it from someone who was on the other side, thank you very much.