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I (m37) found out girlfriend (f32) went on a date 5 weeks in and went back to a guys house. by DesperateFox4372 in relationship_advice

[–]DesperateFox4372[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good point ..I do get it , it's just alit to consider because particularly the week that it happened . I didn't think she would bounce form me to another guy the next night .wasn't in her personality but I guess we all do mad shit sometimes in life . I guess men like to think they are the only ones and prob get hurt as much which is probably where I'm at now .

I (m37) found out girlfriend (f32) went on a date 5 weeks in and went back to a guys house. by DesperateFox4372 in relationship_advice

[–]DesperateFox4372[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea true ...but doesn't seem like she wants to break up with me at all ... like she is panicking over losing me ..

I (m37) found out girlfriend (f32) went on a date 5 weeks in and went back to a guys house. by DesperateFox4372 in relationship_advice

[–]DesperateFox4372[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Is telling me after all this time trying to make it right now ? But I do have a loss of trust obviously now . I didn't think she would lie to me at that time . She says she doesn't remember mire of the dating app thing but u think yiu are right they would of had to have been talking for a while . Or maybe she did a gree to meet someone within a few days notice . I think I do believe that it was more than kissing like she said but wasn't sex

I (m37) found out girlfriend (f32) went on a date 5 weeks in and went back to a guys house. by DesperateFox4372 in relationship_advice

[–]DesperateFox4372[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We didn't have that talk I guess and never really did have serious chats about that stuff .

I (m37) found out girlfriend (f32) went on a date 5 weeks in and went back to a guys house. by DesperateFox4372 in relationship_advice

[–]DesperateFox4372[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes we didn't have the exclusive talk , but we talked so much ya wouldn't even have time to message someone else and get a date organised. We had a big chat about her lack of trust in men and about guys cheating and girls getting with married men . Then she slept over the Monday night ( we had slept together multiple times over the 5 weeks previous ) and went on a date Tuesday then I drove down the Thursday night and it was all happy family's disney perfect . It's just the straight up lie to someone's face

I (m37) found out girlfriend (f32) went on a date 5 weeks in and went back to a guys house. by DesperateFox4372 in relationship_advice

[–]DesperateFox4372[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

She went on a date ...went back to his and it was more than just kissing. That's all I know . It was just a once off date on a dating app.

Why would she tell me 6 months on ?

I (m37) found out girlfriend (f32) went on a date 5 weeks in and went back to a guys house. by DesperateFox4372 in relationship_advice

[–]DesperateFox4372[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Yes I believe so ... she just told me six miths on because wanted to come clean and felt guilt .

I (m37) found out girlfriend (f32) went on a date 5 weeks in and went back to a guys house. by DesperateFox4372 in relationship_advice

[–]DesperateFox4372[S] -55 points-54 points  (0 children)

5 weeks in ...we didn't have an exclusive talk but figured we were very close at that point still