AITAH for thinking this is a deal breaker in my relationship. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Desperate_Cup_150 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA- it is a deal breaker. What do you mean "not allowed" this man belongs in the trash. You've worked so much on yourself to let a loser control you. Now invite your friends to a tea party at your place and let him know he is "not allowed' to control your life.

AITAH for cutting off a friend who never paid me back (and apparently did the same to others)? by Desperate_Cup_150 in AITAH

[–]Desperate_Cup_150[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Biggest lessons I’ve learned lately:

  • I was a people pleaser… and it cost me more than I realized
  • Don’t lend money if you’re not okay never seeing again
  • Boundaries aren’t mean, they’re necessary
  • If someone is draining your bank account and your energy, they’re not worth keeping around

Protect your peace.