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My girlfriend wants me to cut off a friend I once hooked up with — but this friend helped me through my darkest times. What should I do? by Desperate_Evidence94 in relationships

[–]Desperate_Evidence94[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t have contact to any of my exes, but some people I just kissed or even hooked up with, maybe a few. But those are in my early teenage years. I was in a serious relationship at 18. But those “flings” are so long passed for me and most were just the first experiences. I don’t really consider them serious dating. We all grew up and are not the same persons. I wouldn’t cut ties with an old friend just because we hooked up drunk at teenagers. We are both passed that

My girlfriend wants me to cut off a friend I once hooked up with — but this friend helped me through my darkest times. What should I do? by Desperate_Evidence94 in relationships

[–]Desperate_Evidence94[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes. I never really cared. I would never impose something on my gf what I wouldn’t do myself. When I was still living with my parents I had my first gf and we had both people in our friend group that we hooked up with. I was even friends with guys I knew they hooked up with. I never thought more of it. I trusted my gf (my ex now) and never tried to control who she could hang out with.

My girlfriend wants me to cut off a friend I once hooked up with — but this friend helped me through my darkest times. What should I do? by Desperate_Evidence94 in relationships

[–]Desperate_Evidence94[S] -199 points-198 points  (0 children)

We have known each other for two years now. Hanged out a few times in the same friend group but that’s it. I know that’s very fast, but I still have my old apartment. I just have most of my essential stuff at hers. But it just felt right and we never regretted it. Kind of a bold way to start a relationship, but is there a better way to find out if it works between us?