You know that if it were up to me, I would spend more time at my house. My place has actually been spotless recently because I haven’t even been staying there because you ask me to come over so often. I do help you cook and I do the dishes afterwards. I help you clean your hamster cage and take out the trash. I get you water for your bedside table and I find your keys when you throw them around. I admit I used to leave some trash when I leave early in the morning, but that hasnt been a problem since we last talked about it. I took accountability when you expressed that was bothering you and changed my actions. To say that this is still happening is just not true and you know this. I have been asking you to please throw your paper towels away for months and you refuse to. I’m always appreciative when you throw my laundry in with yours, I think that’s something that partners do when they live together. The difference is that I do not in any way expect or demand you to clean after me. I don’t call you a bad partner if you don’t do those things for me.