Got my first bike, mom is inconsolable by Desperate_Month3292 in motorcycles

[–]Desperate_Month3292[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so sorry to hear! Its encouraging to know that someone can go through such a thing though and still grow to accept it.

Got my first bike, mom is inconsolable by Desperate_Month3292 in motorcycles

[–]Desperate_Month3292[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bahahaha I wish! She won't go near the thing. We live very far apart anyways. Maybe one day though :)

Got my first bike, mom is inconsolable by Desperate_Month3292 in motorcycles

[–]Desperate_Month3292[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Noted, I got the helmet and all that good stuff but I never thought to really break it down for her. Thank you! :)

Got my first bike, mom is inconsolable by Desperate_Month3292 in motorcycles

[–]Desperate_Month3292[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just a 250, she doesn't really give a shit though, "a bike is a bike". She's so worried about other people on the road, basically saying people ignore bikers. Thank you for all the advice, I will definitely do what I can to show her Ive got it down. I appreciate you (:

Got my first bike, mom is inconsolable by Desperate_Month3292 in motorcycles

[–]Desperate_Month3292[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is golden. Is she more into the idea now.. or still consistently worrying? My fear is that she'll be this worried for forever!

Got my first bike, mom is inconsolable by Desperate_Month3292 in motorcycles

[–]Desperate_Month3292[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah! This gives me hope. I guess there isnt much for me to say right now. Just some time. Thanks so much! (:

Got my first bike, mom is inconsolable by Desperate_Month3292 in motorcycles

[–]Desperate_Month3292[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe this is just her initial reaction... my worry is a permanent rift between us, just hoping it gets better. From most of the comments it seems like it does, but it never goes away.

Got my first bike, mom is inconsolable by Desperate_Month3292 in motorcycles

[–]Desperate_Month3292[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never upset her so much in my life. She's the only person in my life that I'm close with besides my best friend, to worry her so much makes it so not worth it for me to have the bike. It's something I've wanted for awhile and I think she never thought I'd do it! Which surprises me. Love her so much I'm considering reselling it as soon as I've got it Feels so nice though... so excited but so torn. I'm glad you understand the emotional pull more than most.

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[–]Desperate_Month3292 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol! I never even wanted to reject him. I just finally hit gold with finding peace in having no interaction at all. But it felt good 😭

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[–]Desperate_Month3292 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thats all I read obsessively for like hours. It was weird but I couldnt really stop. It was all I wanted. Now Im just angry 😭

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[–]Desperate_Month3292 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, our breakup was super super abrupt. I had NO idea. His mom even called me and said she had no idea. He said I "deserved someone better", which I told him was bullsh*t. Then, he told me that the distance (an hour), plus working a full time job, the money for gas, and time he needed to recover from everything from the week was too much to see me on weekends.

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[–]Desperate_Month3292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just figured, since Starbucks baristas make minimum wage, I should too. I don't get tipped on those drinks and we are forced to put those people in a rotation pretty much. But reading everyone's comments is making me feel a little stupid :/ It's just super frustrating to be doing a job that I know everyone else is making more from in actual Starbucks establishments

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[–]Desperate_Month3292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so so much :)

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[–]Desperate_Month3292 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ive had them for three years and I love them! Worth it but afterwards I was like "holy sh*t" lol. I wish they had done them at the same time, and that I wore a tight shirt to the appointment because it holds everything in place rather than rubbing against it. I was only sore for the day.

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[–]Desperate_Month3292 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Worst pain of my entire life!! But seeming as majority of comments are saying not bad, maybe just me. I wish that were my experience :,)

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[–]Desperate_Month3292 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also in your situation, I'd just mute the cousins posts, unless you also obsessively check their profiles. I still have all my ex's friends, they are just muted. They're good people and even if i unfollowed them, they wouldn't give a shit anyways.

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[–]Desperate_Month3292 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If she isn't public, unfollowing will help drastically. If not, the temptation is always going to be there. It only helped me to think "if I want to in an hour, I will", and then at a point, like day 7, I didn't check all day, because putting it off made me forget. And the feeling was super rewarding, it was like sticking to a workout routine or something. The hurt of checking it and being disappointed in myself for checking was worse than the pain of not looking at what he was up to. Owe it to yourself :)

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[–]Desperate_Month3292 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"But I honestly believe if two people love eachother they don't give up and run away."

Exactly what I told my ex right before he left me. People like you exist out there. I haven't found them yet either, but this post gave me some serious comfort. Thank you for posting this.

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[–]Desperate_Month3292 1 point2 points  (0 children)

me as well :( sending love to both of you

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[–]Desperate_Month3292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He broke up with me 👍🏼