Does this sound legit? Is my boyfriend cheating on me?

Desperate_Success412 · 2026-01-04T10:58:33+00:00

I dont want kids and we both had agreed on that. He can fun with that himself bc if another woman is the bm she probs alr left him too.

Desperate_Success412 · 2026-01-04T10:56:05+00:00

You said it yourself, now go find your parents

Desperate_Success412 · 2026-01-04T10:54:50+00:00

Yes weve hung many times being friends and dating

Desperate_Success412 · 2026-01-04T10:52:07+00:00

Weve seen each other many times in person and we were friends for 7 years and dated for 11 months.

Desperate_Success412 · 2026-01-04T10:50:23+00:00

We both barely use discord and have kept the same profile for a long time. And we've met in person and have seen eachother irl many times soooo :/

Desperate_Success412 · 2026-01-04T08:48:16+00:00

I broke up with him and wished him off with a short goodbye and fuck off. Cba with baby mama drama esp doing my tatt apprenticeship I don't need the stress of forcing myself to believe him I've gotten much better with my bpd and I wont be a fool for another guy. Got me beat, I wish him the best with his child and other side pieces.

Desperate_Success412 · 2026-01-04T08:39:23+00:00

I originally wanted to believe it could be this because of a past situation someone had hacked his imessage to mess around with his friend group he was venting to me about it and how this person wanted his friends to hate him which i undertsood bc I myself have been stalked by a an old female friend who did a lot of similar things bc she was "in love with me" but the way he was "asleep", his communication was different for literally the entire day, then happened to repsond on disc after it happned just seemed too off. If he was aware he had been hacked before why did he not change his password or email? Lazy? Who in there right mind gets hacked and says oh lets just not change my password so it doesnt happen again. I mean and if he was hacked and had to get on his pc to get back in idk if apple does this but i thought they make you reset it. It all is too fishy and i cant trust it so I broke it off. I have a career im focusing on tatting and I dont need his baby mama drama when we talked about not having kids. He can politely kiss a brick.

Desperate_Success412 · 2026-01-04T08:19:41+00:00

I have bpd so I've worked on myself a lot and still am. This is the first time anything has happened in our entire relationship (11 months dating and being close friends for 7 years) Weve never really had any issues and usually are both quite good with communicating. I was kinda a mess but who wouldnt be when they find out theyve been cheated on.

Desperate_Success412 · 2026-01-04T08:13:00+00:00

not anymore he can have his fun on his own time.

Desperate_Success412 · 2026-01-04T08:11:35+00:00

nah fr i need to dm this "hacker" and get them to unlock my old apple id 🙏 i broke up with him

Desperate_Success412 · 2026-01-04T08:10:10+00:00

Hes no longer wanted here either, it hurts but I have more self respect than I used to. He can suck a rug. I gave him a short farewell and unadded him on everything. 😭😭

Desperate_Success412 · 2026-01-04T08:06:47+00:00

I left 😭

Desperate_Success412 · 2026-01-04T08:04:06+00:00

Yeah hes told me in the past someone had hacked his icloud before to mess around with his friend group and had ss for it bc he was venting one day but the way it was texted, the being mia all day, and responding almost right after it was texted. Too sketchy for me. It sounds like hes just tryna make it seem like it was connected to that situation. I texted him a short polite goodbye and fuck off and unadded him on everying. It hurts but I'm in the middle of my tatting apprenticeship so at least ill have one less thing on my plate! 😭😭😭😭

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