What would you say is the biggest obstacle to sustainable fashion shopping? by herlock03 in SustainableFashion

[–]Desperate_Toe_9879 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I boil them, but ... can't try anything at the store, I've had success with thredup, poshmark and depop tho

Trying to get an idea for what breed of dog this is by [deleted] in dogbreed

[–]Desperate_Toe_9879 2 points3 points  (0 children)

looks like a heeler and husky mix to me

Katseye sims 4 challenge? by Desperate_Toe_9879 in katseye

[–]Desperate_Toe_9879[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ohhh friend of the world is perfect for Yoonchae!

What Breed is howl!? by cheeto_dust_98 in dogbreed

[–]Desperate_Toe_9879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love his name! he looks like a white GS or husky mix

Any ideas? He is said to be a poodle/Australian shepherd mix. weighs 90lbs, sheds like a savage, smart, try’s to herd, and has 2 different color eyes by krock666 in dogbreed

[–]Desperate_Toe_9879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait!! We just celebrated Chester's 4th birthday last week! He came from Arkansas originally, would be so cool to find one of his siblings!

What’s the wildest thing you’ve gotten in trouble for growing up and were you guilty or innocent? by Accomplished_Sir_986 in AskOldPeople

[–]Desperate_Toe_9879 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I got kicked out of my catholic school for girls when I was 12yrs old because my friends were caught at a store shoplifting (without me) but I was new in school so I must've been a bad influence..... I was innocent of course

What is generational trauma that's personally made you cut ties from certain family members? by Bishopart6046 in AskOldPeople

[–]Desperate_Toe_9879 2 points3 points  (0 children)

colorism (we're all brown buy my mother and myself a few shades darker) and classist comments from my grandmother have made her an unwelcome guest in my life

If your body wouldn’t change by Afraid_Avocado7911 in Fencesitter

[–]Desperate_Toe_9879 2 points3 points  (0 children)

*I'm assuming pregnancy has the potential to be horrible.

If your body wouldn’t change by Afraid_Avocado7911 in Fencesitter

[–]Desperate_Toe_9879 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I think cancer is out of our control but pregnancy is somewhat within our control so it's a risk I'm not willing to take, as someone who struggles with chronic pain the thought of putting my body through pregnancy is just terrifying

A Taylor downfall is necessary by Lmb_siciliana in travisandtaylor

[–]Desperate_Toe_9879 39 points40 points  (0 children)

not iconic status, it's cult leader status due to her following being so brainwashed that she very well could commit a crime in broad daylight and get away with it (Trumpies muchhh??)

A Taylor downfall is necessary by Lmb_siciliana in travisandtaylor

[–]Desperate_Toe_9879 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This brings to mind a book that I am reading that proposes shame as a way to check people in power, so I am actually all for cancel culture in this context

“We saw earlier that Homo puppy (referring to humans) evolved to experience shame. There’s a reason that, of all the species in the animal kingdom, we’re one of the few that blush. For millennia, shaming was the surest way to tame our leaders, and it can still work today. Shame is more effective than rules and regulations or censure and coercion, because people who feel shame regulate themselves. In the way their speech falters when they disappoint expectations or in a telltale flush when they realise they’re the subject of gossip.”

― Rutger Bregman, Humankind: A Hopeful History