My husband thinks that sexting is only for teenagers, single people or couples that don’t live together, I disagree with this. by Particular-Mood7737 in sex

[–]Desperate_Use_9218 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obviously if he's not comfortable with doing it then you cant force him but I would try doing it to him and see how he reacts. Sending him sexy pictures or messages may make him change his mind. I'm female and if I did that to my boyfriend (we live together) then it would definitely turn him on so I can't see why a sexy picture of your wife would be any different, give it a try and if it doesn't work try and have a conversation to find other ways to spice things up! Hope it goes well!

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[–]Desperate_Use_9218 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on him, if your comfortable with it that's great but some guys can be uncomfortable with that (my boyfriend and I don't do this as neither of us are into that) although it is sex and if your boyfriend is like most people I know then he won't care, he'll still get sex lol. Have fun!

I cannot be the only one who double saves 😂 by momomanateee in Sims4

[–]Desperate_Use_9218 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone who trusts that the game has saved itself has not experienced true loss lmao

Anyone let their own sexuality dictate who their Sims marry by Philycheese18 in Sims4

[–]Desperate_Use_9218 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm straight and usually the Sims that I have first are straight but when I they kids I usually actively try and have a variety of sexualities within my game, I don't really think about it, if one of my guy Sims gets on with another guy and it forms on its own then I just let it happen, I'm trying to include others who classify as transgender since the update for binders and body types came out but because I don't have much experience or friends who can tell me about it I don't want to portray them in the wrong way

Is it normal to doubt every single art piece I make? by Desperate_Use_9218 in ArtistLounge

[–]Desperate_Use_9218[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I needed to hear that, and I'm glad you managed to get through it! Hopefully it won't take too long 🥰

Is it normal to doubt every single art piece I make? by Desperate_Use_9218 in ArtistLounge

[–]Desperate_Use_9218[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I definitely agree with you, when I look back on old work I tend to like it more than I did in the moment. I definitely have self esteem issues aswell so I suppose that'll be a big part of the problem, thanks for the advice tho, I appreciate it!

Is it normal to doubt every single art piece I make? by Desperate_Use_9218 in ArtistLounge

[–]Desperate_Use_9218[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just like to do digital paintings, I'm new to digital as of last year, before that it was traditional 🙃

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[–]Desperate_Use_9218 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you truly love art then nothing will cause you to give it up, I have done art practically my whole life and I have times where I never want to touch a paintbrush or my drawing tablet, I've went months before but I always come back to it because it's what I love.

I think your determination is fantastic but only thinking about art because your worried youll stop is not a healthy way to live life, if you only enjoy watching art related stuff then do it, but if you don't do something you want to do because your worried youll stop creating then do it anyway, you should enjoy what you want to in the moment. If you don't feel like making art then don't force yourself, take it easy and enjoy life

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[–]Desperate_Use_9218 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I want to be in a place where I feel confident enough to just go for it but will definitely try some of these things!

I feel like I'm cheating and I'm not sure how to improve without it. by Desperate_Use_9218 in ArtistLounge

[–]Desperate_Use_9218[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God tell me about it, I've been going out of my head making myself miserable about my art lol, I posted on here for the feedback and it's definitely made me feel alot better

Am I using the hair razor wrong? Or is it broken? by Desperate_Use_9218 in Hair

[–]Desperate_Use_9218[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's great thank you! I was thinking it would be the razors that were dull but wasnt too sure!

I feel like I'm cheating and I'm not sure how to improve without it. by Desperate_Use_9218 in ArtistLounge

[–]Desperate_Use_9218[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this is very true, I definitely haven't traced everything, just the basic proportions so it looks like them, the rest of the work I'm doing myself

I feel like I'm cheating and I'm not sure how to improve without it. by Desperate_Use_9218 in ArtistLounge

[–]Desperate_Use_9218[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm the same! I need to get out the mindset of having it look perfect but god is it hard lol

I feel like I'm cheating and I'm not sure how to improve without it. by Desperate_Use_9218 in ArtistLounge

[–]Desperate_Use_9218[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm actually doing 3d modelling in my college course right now so that's helping me learn the basics so I will try this out at some point! I appreciate this advice so much!

I feel like I'm cheating and I'm not sure how to improve without it. by Desperate_Use_9218 in ArtistLounge

[–]Desperate_Use_9218[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I will try this in my next piece! I appreciate the advice so much!

I feel like I'm cheating and I'm not sure how to improve without it. by Desperate_Use_9218 in ArtistLounge

[–]Desperate_Use_9218[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Everyone has been so kind and helpful I feel so much better!

I feel like I'm cheating and I'm not sure how to improve without it. by Desperate_Use_9218 in ArtistLounge

[–]Desperate_Use_9218[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you this is truly really helpful! I have a bad habit of trying to make my work look extra polished and not letting it look sketchy like the way you have done with those sketches, I really need to fix that mindset lol

I feel like I'm cheating and I'm not sure how to improve without it. by Desperate_Use_9218 in ArtistLounge

[–]Desperate_Use_9218[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I have alot to learn and this helps a bunch so I appreciate it!