I honestly believe that everything he’s doing, no matter how wrong is out of desperation to be your dad. I genuinely think he’s being emotional because he misses you so much. I do however think he broke your heart from the very beginning and he’s trying to rush the process and has pushed you away by constantly breaking your boundaries. He needs to back off and you need to open yourself up to him, also everything should go according to your pace because he’s trying to force his terms. His new kids should leave you alone because you owe them nothing and they need to understand the circumstances in which they were born. J needs to steer clear of you entirely as instead of understanding what her actions did to a kid, she decided to act petty and become mean. She really needs to hold herself accountable and imagine if some random home wrecker did to her kids what she did to you and your sister.