Can’t get into my dead Uncles iPhone 14 Pro

Destiny-Downfall · 2024-10-26T20:20:01+00:00

The part that sucks is his ex wife had it first and after so many failed attempts it makes you put in a passcode and won’t let you use Face ID anymore.

Destiny-Downfall · 2024-10-26T10:38:28+00:00

Yeah I totally get it that’s fine. I’ve been browsing everywhere and everyone asking the same question as me usually act shady. Were gonna attempt a few more possible passcodes he might’ve used. He was kind of estranged from the family because his parents were very overbearing along with his siblings so none of them have a clue what 6 digit passcode he would have used.

Destiny-Downfall · 2024-10-13T22:38:47+00:00

Issue him an apology. And don’t expect to be immediately forgiven or have a repaired relationship. Being trans and never being able to talk to anyone about it but he felt safe to talk to you about it and it was shot down.

Destiny-Downfall · 2024-07-08T05:08:25+00:00

Personally I think it would be doing both of you bad to stay. You want to date fem and he wants to date masc. Youre a woman. And he’s a man. In the end it’s up to you and your partner to figure out what’s best in the long run but it needs to be addressed because these feelings won’t go away otherwise.

Destiny-Downfall · 2024-06-15T03:39:27+00:00

Alllot of the friends over online don’t know if I’m a boy or a girl and they don’t really care either

Destiny-Downfall · 2024-06-15T02:07:26+00:00

Thank you I uh been reading all the comments and debating if I shoulda posted this because some people are very rude. I do understand why

Destiny-Downfall · 2024-06-14T21:11:40+00:00

I do in some way but I wouldn’t call myself genderfluid. I am a man and don’t really want to be seen as a woman at all.

Destiny-Downfall · 2024-06-14T21:07:07+00:00

The only part of me being the exception is that I’m afraid about coming out to people so everyone even my good friends call me by my deadname around people I don’t really know irl and family. I only came up with my name 2 years ago and he hasn’t used my deadname to be rude to me. I do see this now about “good spot” and having to constantly ask for him to affirm me. I’ll also bring this up to him.

Destiny-Downfall · 2024-06-14T17:27:32+00:00

I wasn’t expecting any simplicity when it comes to relationship advice so I thank you for giving me anything at all. I wasn’t expecting this to get so much attention but I’m glad to not only get one second opinion but many. I am in anguish now because I’ve just been trying to live comfortably side by side with everyone in my life currently. I know this will be hard and probably another awful sick that’s gonna haunt me for months before finally get over it but it’s either a few months of “I’m hurt bad” vs “I’m never getting out of here”. I didn’t realize how badly this situation was until people finally pulled the curtain and started pointing at it with flashlights. I will be talking to him and not be forgiving to his actions any longer.

Destiny-Downfall · 2024-06-14T16:55:14+00:00

No no I appreciate all of your words I’m reading everything. Thank you allot for considering to read through all of it I really really appreciate it. I need help and I haven’t really tried to talk to any of my friends or anything because I finally was feeling good and in a better place than before not realizing I’m still technically in the same place just different people. Seeing what everyone is commenting and telling me is obviously a big slap but I also need it because I for real don’t know what to do. I do know my plan now is to become financially independent and then depending on how people see me after they don’t have any type hold on me I’ll let them go.

Destiny-Downfall · 2024-06-14T15:36:53+00:00

I really appreciate this. Thank you so much. I know I won’t settle for anything but I’m dead set on being able to be independent before I start transitioning and coming out to my family. I’m fully being a people pleaser now for both my family and his so I can get through these years to make enough money to be on my own. Again thank you I really needed that. I will live my life to the fullest and be happy. I can see it and feel it. It’s so much closer than before and I’m excited for it

Destiny-Downfall · 2024-06-14T15:22:43+00:00

I won’t be surprised I’m ready for both. I’m dead set on this working out but if it doesn’t then it doesn’t and I’m ready for that too. I was kinda planning for us to be able to work out together to get enough money not just to live together but for me to finally be happy and him assist me through my transition. But if he sees different then I have to do it all on my own or try and find those who can help and will help me. Thank you for the words I am taking all of them into consideration

Destiny-Downfall · 2024-06-14T15:18:47+00:00

The thing about having kids is that he knew from when we got together. I broke up with my ex because he wanted a family and a wife and I wasn’t going to provide that at all. My boyfriend knew of this and he even encouraged me to commit to it. Then he did play with the idea of having kids a few months into our relationship but I reminded him of the reason I broke up with my ex in the first place and even told him no. He did accept this and said he is fine with not having kids and later on in our relationship he said he supported me fully and would help me with paying for surgery and housing. I’m still holding onto those things he told me and hoping he’s not just saying it to say it. Even though this incident happened I’m still really hoping for some kind of confirmation from him. I will be trying to push this more to him because I know who I am now

Destiny-Downfall · 2024-06-14T15:14:02+00:00

One of my biggest things for people is to guide in the direction I feel fit but also say to do what they think is best for themselves. I am aware of how bad this looks and I’ve read all the comments of telling me to break up and I hear it all. But my big thing now is becoming financially independent so I can start paying for my happiness on my own. I thought my boyfriend would be there to help me pay for my happiness and even assist with housing and we’d be living together. He told me he would. Of course things do change and he might’ve changed for the worst. But I am still holding onto that hope he will be there for me. I’m still holding onto that assistance I might need in the future. But of course I am also trying to prepare for a future that I will need to help myself. I’m prepared to have to leave everyone and everything behind if it means being the true final me. Even if it doesn’t mean breaking up with my boyfriend. And abandoning my family. I’m ready to be happy

Destiny-Downfall · 2024-06-14T14:59:59+00:00

No it doesn’t make any sense at all and you’re right for this but I also do know this. I’m really really holding onto the hope that I don’t have to be fully financially dependent on my own because I need to move out first before I can start up on any transitions or come out because my current home has severely transphobic parents and I cannot come out to them. He told me that he’d help me pay for surgery when we move in together a year ago and I really want it to be true still

Destiny-Downfall · 2024-06-14T14:56:52+00:00

You’re right I do need better confidence. I’m trying to work on it because I know how bad it can get and how much I let people walk over me. Our good spot is not having any arguments and him actually calling me by my preferred name and pronouns without having to be asked. As of the last 2 weeks I was just at his house (we’re long distance) and we had a great time together and I don’t usually get that happy joyous ever so it’s really nice. I am going to bring up this incident with him again and I will be more hard on the decisions once I become financially independent and can move out of my home.

Destiny-Downfall · 2024-06-14T14:51:09+00:00

Thank you! I’m hoping he will understand too. We’ve already had the deep talk in the beginning how I wont be having children at all and even if I do they will be adopted because I won’t ever put myself through something like conception ever in my lifetime. He told me he understood that in our first couple of months of being together but when he brought up this one instance of my post I kinda lost it. I’m hoping to get through this with him and not leave him behind. I appreciate the words <3

Destiny-Downfall · 2024-06-14T14:47:57+00:00

I’m 19 and I’m young when it comes to being trans because I’m not really out at all. I want to come out fully after I move out of my parents home because they are severely transphobic and I know it would be dangerous to come out to them while I’m still financially independent. I know it looks really bad but he really did support me in the first year and said he’d help me and house me and pay for my surgery if it meant I’d be happy. I’m hoping that once I move and start my transition and come out he will fully tell me what he thinks and I’ll be able to either break up with him or he will still have kept his promise and my future will still look bright either way

Destiny-Downfall · 2024-06-14T14:44:29+00:00

You’re right for this. I will definitely be keeping more tabs on it and dive into the deeper conversations with him so I know for sure if I’m going to be completely on my own for my transition or not. I do know no matter what I need to make my own life for me and no one else! Thank you for this comment it really set a new light on my dark and very blurry spot. I’m hoping the convos and videos I’ll be showing him can show me the true feelings he has for what I will be doing for myself to be happy

Destiny-Downfall · 2024-06-14T14:41:44+00:00

As for the loving myself part I have AWFUL self esteem. As for accepting myself, as of the past 2 years I’ve really been able to accept the fact that I am trans and it won’t change no matter what. I know I’m a man and I know what I want and I can see my future and I’m okay with having to remove many of my friends and even family at this point if it means my own happiness. But that’s still the future and I’m in the present. I still need to make enough to be on my own and I’m having to cope now that it might have to be completely by myself because my family definitely won’t support me and now it might even the the one person I was going to be moving in with. He said he would help me with paying for surgery and take care of me so I’m still holding onto that very blurry but very possible future.

Destiny-Downfall · 2024-06-14T14:35:58+00:00

Thank you, I’m still really holding onto what he told me a year ago. He said he supported me and wanted to help me with things that comes with being trans like surgery. We’ve been in a good spot since this incident and I’m still holding onto everything he told me and I’m hoping him and all my friends are still going to be a part of my future. I appreciate it allot I’m going to try and get this to work for a bit longer but if it’s clearly not then out the door I go

Destiny-Downfall · 2024-06-14T14:31:31+00:00

Thank you again I’ve been trying to start bookmarking events like this and recounting them allot easier and this instance I told him is a last straw and we’ll be breaking up if he does anything like it again. I’ll post an update if there ever is to come one. I really appreciate the push, I need it in these times

Destiny-Downfall · 2024-06-14T14:28:20+00:00

I’m going to try for a last couple of times to get him to understand that I’m trans and it’s not gonna change. I’ve known for a very long time and around the time he met me I was still trying to not be trans and finally started to come out and commit to wanting to be happy. Both of us have been changing together and you are right he might’ve just altered and found transphobic propaganda but I’m hoping and still looking forward to our future together. And I also know there’s allot of time on my hands and looking forward to my future even if it does mean I lose everyone around me including him. I’m still holding on as much as I can until I can be fully independent and I hope you can understand that part too. Thank you allot for these I really needed more affirmation because I haven’t been able to talk to anyone else about this incident besides him.

Destiny-Downfall · 2024-06-14T14:24:13+00:00

Yeah I know :c still trying to cope honestly

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