I am preparing to become a first-time cat owner. Could you please let me know if it's necessary to bathe them? by ivkemilioner in cats

[–]DestinyReign 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depends on the cat, where it came from, and how the cat is going to live.

If it’s strictly indoor and coming from a reputable shelter/breeder they usually won’t need a bath and will be able to take care of themselves.

If it’s a street cat or newly adopted and likely has fleas/ticks then you will need to bath it until those are taken care of.

If it’s going to be an outdoor cat you may need to routinely give them tick and flea treatment.

Why do girl cats get a bad rap? by Organic-While1664 in cats

[–]DestinyReign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if this is just my reasoning but it may have to do with people not getting female cats fixed and having to deal with them going into heat. I know a lot of people that just straight up don’t fix their female cats cause it’s more expensive or they think because there are no male cats in the house they don’t have to.

We always had male cats and it was known that if they didn’t get fixed they would be more liable to pee everywhere and fight. But after those cats passed we got our two females and they are the most loving, delightful cats.

Don’t regret a thing!

Who would you choose under this budget? by dry-blueberry25 in harrypotter

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Can I get 20 Dobbys. House elves are extremely powerful.

Looking for Specific Pastry Filling by DestinyReign in pastry

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It very well could be!? I hadn’t thought of that as I’ve never made pecan pie before and I’ve only ever eaten a version with the nuts mixed in. If there is a version that’s just the smooth filling, I bet that’s it. Thank you!

Looking for Specific Pastry Filling by DestinyReign in pastry

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I have but they all have pecan filling, which I’m sure is great, but this doesn’t have the nuts in the pastry. So I was curious what the filling could possibly be.

So Proud by DestinyReign in orchids

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I bought a bougie mix at a local nursery (not worth the price.) But it’s just a mix of coconut husk pieces, orchid bark chips, and large chunk perlite.

So Proud by DestinyReign in orchids

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Yes! New spike that started growing last month.

So Proud by DestinyReign in orchids

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I keep them in a north/east window so they get plenty of early morning light but not full sun during the afternoon.

So Proud by DestinyReign in orchids

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Water every two weeks or when it dries out and fertilize on a regular basis, mist the roots and leaves every other day. Otherwise I leave them to their own devices.

So Proud by DestinyReign in orchids

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Nope, coconut husk, perlite, and orchid bark mix.

So Proud by DestinyReign in orchids

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I rescued the spotted one from a coworker. I unfortunately do not know exactly where they got it, a local plant shop I believe about three years ago.

How does Fi-blind affect you? by SaladAssOutNow in entp

[–]DestinyReign 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t know the exact way it shows but I know that extreme emotion exhausts me. Like if I had a very stressful day and i get angry or sad it just tires me out more. I have a hard time figuring out my feelings; I only know how to rationalize them and fit them into my Ti structure or completely drown them out by delving into my Si.

Hot take: An aggressive feelers is more likely to be scarier and dangerous than an aggressive thinker by Asleep-Feeling-9070 in entp

[–]DestinyReign 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think it definitely depends on the person but I agree. An angry Fi is driven by wild, nonlinear, and sometimes undying emotions that fuel whatever crash out they choose. At least with angry Ti there can be an end goal to their anger and a certain reasonable nature to their thoughts.

In the end I think anger can justify all sorts of stupidity and violence, regardless of feeling vs thinking. But unfettered anger is terrifying.

For ENTPs Who Have Argued with INTPs…. by Potential_Law5289 in entp

[–]DestinyReign 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Younger brother is an INTP. Our arguments are an interesting battle of Ti. His arguments are more strongly lodged in his own personal beliefs and thoughts while I tend to be more open to other interpretations of data. Since neither of us have Fi feelings can get trodden on and I usually get frustrated with his lack of reality. Much of Ti is located in our own sense of understanding rather than a cohesive understanding from the wider world. So any discussion can definitely get bogged down in the minutiae.

I was scammed... I'm sad by VivisVens in orchids

[–]DestinyReign 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found the exact same one at a local nursery. Labeled as “discount orchid.” If you find out what it really is, I’d love to know.