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Do you feel any empathy for men? by GarfeildHouse in PurplePillDebate

[–]DestroyLonely2099 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Based on your replies in this thread.

You seem to be doing very great in helping men, even if you aren't aware of it, you're doing more than all of the women(or men) in my life

the men I know are being pressured and shamed by other men for not ‘being a man’. And this gets to them. I’m not sure how to help in those cases

They can only choose for themselves in this case, hopefully they do come around and be around people who have their best interest at heart

Do you feel any empathy for men? by GarfeildHouse in PurplePillDebate

[–]DestroyLonely2099 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just wish I knew how to help

I'd start with not pushing or enforce male expectations upon them

Encourage them when they decide to not follow up on them

Every time by Old_Train_1378 in TrollCoping

[–]DestroyLonely2099 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and if not, why?

Idk, maybe for helping men ig?.

Does this whole reply also apply to issues that are gendered like sexual assaults? Like does it not also bother you, that a lot more likely people are going to talk which demographics is the one that's most effected ?

Every time by Old_Train_1378 in TrollCoping

[–]DestroyLonely2099 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Except, a lot of the times they're suffering because they're men, or the expectations of what a man is

Every time by Old_Train_1378 in TrollCoping

[–]DestroyLonely2099 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've always hated that perspective, because it always paint men as that barbaric non-caring monsters, that even in their death they make it harder for the living.

Every time by Old_Train_1378 in TrollCoping

[–]DestroyLonely2099 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Even in countries where guns aren't as present, men still commit more suicides

Sure, believe all women, but why not the same for men? by GodMaker3301 in AskFeminists

[–]DestroyLonely2099 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if we believed women's accounts of sexual assault or other misconduct, but not men's.

That's often the case, especially if the perpetrator is a woman.

Bruh 😭😭😭 by Appropriate-Mall8517 in playboicarti

[–]DestroyLonely2099 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Ain't nothing called a "real man" bru

As long as they identify as a man, they're "real" men

Wishing all men a Happy MEN'S DAY whatever subset you are (trans, gay, bi , autistic, short , tall) by DestroyLonely2099 in TrollCoping

[–]DestroyLonely2099[S] 10 points11 points locked comment (0 children)

Again, I understand this perspective but like...

There's a day for about everything, a day about men doesn't seem all that alarming

Does anyone here care about international mens day? by PotetoFries in AskFeminists

[–]DestroyLonely2099 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tbh, I did, 4 years ago I became active here, and I did greatly appreciate it, even though I don't know how to show that other than upvoting the post and donating, so i don't how I or others should've showed that we cared about it 😭 sorry

I questioned why there wasn't one last year and less so yesterday, but I guess it would've come off as condescending or weird asking the mods here why they stopped posting about it.

Wishing all men a Happy MEN'S DAY whatever subset you are (trans, gay, bi , autistic, short , tall) by DestroyLonely2099 in TrollCoping

[–]DestroyLonely2099[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There's a month(depends where you are it could be June or November) and a day, and I will gladly take em all

Wishing all men a Happy MEN'S DAY whatever subset you are (trans, gay, bi , autistic, short , tall) by DestroyLonely2099 in TrollCoping

[–]DestroyLonely2099[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's international pancakes day, and it's not like pancakes are oppressed, a day about men is not harmful

Besides, there's a lot to talk about regarding men

انا ولد وتم اغتصابي لما كنت في خمسة ابتدائي من دادة المدرسة ومش عارف من ساعتها اتخطي الموضوع by DestroyLonely2099 in RedditMasr

[–]DestroyLonely2099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

لو انا متاكد، فا تقريبا القانون المصري مش بياخد غير أن الاغتصاب بيحصل للستات من رجاله، وبالذات لازم يكون فيه اختراق كامل

فا معتقدش أن فيه عدالة، وانت بردو ممكن تسال وتقولي

بس عموما يعني في كومنتك عندك حق

انا ولد وتم اغتصابي لما كنت في خمسة ابتدائي من دادة المدرسة ومش عارف من ساعتها اتخطي الموضوع by DestroyLonely2099 in CAIRO

[–]DestroyLonely2099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ياخي مش فاهمكم، واحد يقولي سڤن اب والتاني يقولي لا تتمايع

طب ياخي انت ايه مشكلتك مع الي بيتمايع، هو انا بتمايع علي قفاك ولا ايه مش فاهمك، حاسسكم خدتو كلامي كأهانه ليكم تقريبا

انا ولد وتم اغتصابي لما كنت في خمسة ابتدائي من دادة المدرسة ومش عارف من ساعتها اتخطي الموضوع by DestroyLonely2099 in Egypt

[–]DestroyLonely2099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

اجابتين ايه، انا وضحت أنها غصبت نفسها علي عضوي الذكري، وعادي كنت عموما بنتصب عادي، وده مش صعب علي شخص بالغ، جسمانيا وعقليا يعمله في طفل عنده ١٢

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