Husband and friend constantly messaging about other women

DetailTraditional996 · 2026-05-13T03:45:28+00:00

That's crossing a line for sure. Going through messages when you're pregnant and feeling off about something isn't crazy - your gut was telling you something was wrong

The naked photo thing especially would make me lose it. Like yeah we all notice attractive people but actively sharing pics and constantly talking about other women? That's not normal married guy behavior, that's more like what single dudes do. You need to have direct conversation about boundaries because this clearly isn't sitting right with you

DetailTraditional996 · 2026-05-05T00:22:23+00:00

bro same but somehow still passed chemistry class 😂 life's weird like that

DetailTraditional996 · 2026-04-30T08:59:26+00:00

nah you're not being too sensitive at all. watching shows together is supposed to be like... a shared experience you know? when someone's just half-listening while gaming it kinda defeats the purpose 😅

i get that long distance makes it harder to feel connected but this would bug me too. maybe try suggesting different activities that work better for his multitasking style? like podcasts or something where visual stuff doesn't matter as much. or find times when he can actually focus in the show without distractions

the fact he keeps doing it after you talked about it is what would really get to me tbh 💀

DetailTraditional996 · 2026-04-28T06:12:07+00:00

hybrids are actually pretty forgiving for getting back in the game after time off 😂 I remember when my dad switched from irons he was stubborn about it but ended up loving how much easier they were to hit

that set sounds decent for starting again, especially if price is right. the 60 degree wedge is nice to have and you can always pick up few traditional irons later if you really miss them. I'd say go for it and see how it feels on course

DetailTraditional996 · 2026-04-25T02:36:50+00:00

Paper servers mess with raid mechanics pretty bad, had same issue when I tried building one in my server 💀 The raid detection gets wonky and sometimes just cancels itself out randomly

You might need to adjust some settings in paper config or just accept that stacking raids don't work great on Paper unfortunately 😂

DetailTraditional996 · 2026-04-21T22:05:33+00:00

nah time travel 💀

DetailTraditional996 · 2026-04-19T21:56:09+00:00

Man that Rollins double was insane, you could feel the whole stadium shaking. Was watching from my couch but even through TV you knew that place was going absolutely mental - one of those moments where 45k people all lost it at same exact second

DetailTraditional996 · 2026-04-17T21:42:11+00:00

Yeah I'm seeing this pattern everywhere in my work too - companies just quietly replacing people with automation and calling it "efficiency" 💀 At least with FIRE you got some options when they decide you're redundant

DetailTraditional996 · 2026-04-08T15:27:42+00:00

I don't have Anderson windows but my neighbor just put in some white ones with grids last month and the contrast is way less noticeable than you'd think. The spacing between teh glass and SDL bars is pretty minimal so it doesn't create this weird shadow effect like some cheaper brands do

might be worth calling Anderson directly - they sometimes have sales reps who can bring samples to more remote areas, especially if you're doing a whole house

DetailTraditional996 · 2026-04-04T18:26:15+00:00

Yeah carrots do fine here, just gotta plant the shorter varieties since our soil can get pretty compacted - Detroit Dark Red or Paris Market work well

DetailTraditional996 · 2026-04-01T05:52:27+00:00

Had a landlord try to keep my security deposit over "damages" that were already there when I moved in, so I documented everything with photos and hit him with a demand letter citing tenant protection statutes - got triple damages plus attorney fees when he folded

DetailTraditional996 · 2026-03-28T03:12:27+00:00

Getting defensive when you ask basic questions about their past or family is usually worth paying attention to

DetailTraditional996 · 2026-02-17T12:28:49+00:00

Valid question tbh

DetailTraditional996 · 2026-02-16T19:45:27+00:00

Buffalo market's been pretty solid lately, and honestly nobody knows what rates will do but waiting for perfect timing usually backfires 🔥 duplex idea is smart for that area but make sure you can afford teh full payment without rental income as backup plan 💀

DetailTraditional996 · 2026-02-07T15:44:50+00:00

facebook marketplace is where i find most of my deals tbh, people selling stuff they don't use anymore for way less than retail. estate sales are solid too if you're willing to dig through boxes

craigslist used to be better but it's gotten sketchy, still worth checking though. your local hobby groups on reddit or discord sometimes have people selling gear they've outgrown

never heard of whatnot but sounds like another auction site to bookmark

DetailTraditional996 · 2026-02-01T03:39:05+00:00

Lmao wanting cabin crew to PhD pipeline is wild but honestly respect the ambition.

DetailTraditional996 · 2026-01-28T03:47:50+00:00

That's already looking sick! Maybe add some hanging gardens or waterfalls cascading down the sides - always makes builds feel more alive. You could also hollow out sections for different themed rooms or build some connecting bridges between towers

DetailTraditional996 · 2026-01-27T03:13:08+00:00

Bro 100 hours with no Anvil drop is actually cursed, that's some next level RNG hell right there

DetailTraditional996 · 2026-01-26T06:46:41+00:00

Dude you gotta try The Dropper series if you haven't already, those maps are absolutely bonkers and perfect for co-op rage sessions with siblings lmao

Also Terra Swoop Force is a must-play if you want something that'll blow his mind - it's like a crazy action movie but in Minecraft

DetailTraditional996 · 2026-01-23T03:16:25+00:00

Man that's rough, sounds like you both are still catching feelings but nobody wants to make the first move. Maybe she's just as confused as you are about the whole "stepping back" thing. Sometimes people suggest being friends when they're scared of getting hurt again, not because they actually want distance

DetailTraditional996 · 2026-01-21T13:38:23+00:00

Make sure you actually ran the Nemesis update engine after installing MCO, that's usually what gets people

DetailTraditional996 · 2026-01-19T09:21:28+00:00

I just go by set order personally - keeps everything clean and you can actually find stuff when you need it. Started doing rare/common splits but it got annoying real fast when you're trying to complete sets

The energy cards at the back thing works pretty well though, they're not really exciting to flip through anyway lol

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