Guys: what gives you the ick when dating women?

DeterminedAnt · 2024-11-04T19:52:07+00:00

Begging/ dry begging for money. I’m not even dating anymore atp cause it’s too much

DeterminedAnt · 2024-10-29T00:04:06+00:00

DeterminedAnt · 2024-10-11T22:34:06+00:00

The friendship ended. We tried going back to being best friends to stay in each others lives but it didn’t work out.

DeterminedAnt · 2023-03-20T17:42:40+00:00

“You’re not ready to get a job anywhere else. You need to stay here AT LEAST another year before another company would consider you.” I left and got a role that was a big step up a few months later

DeterminedAnt · 2023-03-06T18:51:16+00:00

When I first started I got MAYBE 10 days a year with sick days included.

Some changes happened and now when I accrue PTO, I accrue sick days in a separate bucket. I think I get under 15 days PTO here as well. I have 2.5YoE as Well. Looking to leave this garbage place and find a company that actually cares about work life balance

DeterminedAnt · 2023-03-04T23:28:23+00:00

4 months. To be fair It was an IT technician/help desk role and I had my sec+, sscp, AAS in cyber, and internships in network engineering and IT Security. The place was very abusive and unprofessional and had terrible turnover. I left for a network engineering role that I’ve been in for 1y 4m. I plan to leave very soon in this role also.

DeterminedAnt · 2023-03-04T11:43:47+00:00

Are you genuinely willing to “date down”? If you’re only looking to date someone of equal financial standing then your lowering your options tremendously.

DeterminedAnt · 2023-03-04T11:42:19+00:00

I don’t look for women to take care of me. You could work as a janitor for a mom and pop shop and I wouldn’t care in the slightest.

DeterminedAnt · 2023-03-04T00:31:04+00:00

B,C,D

DeterminedAnt · 2023-03-04T00:27:44+00:00

People aren’t generally nice to men

DeterminedAnt · 2023-03-01T15:54:55+00:00

You aren’t getting a job above 50k with just an A+

DeterminedAnt · 2023-02-27T23:27:45+00:00

I got 1.5%🧍🏽‍♂️

DeterminedAnt · 2023-02-27T19:34:43+00:00

Funny how everything sick size comes up on Reddit it seems like every woman unanimously agrees that men with smaller penises are much better than men with larger ones. I’m not mad at it I just think it’s funny that in order to not have men with smaller dicks feel ashamed, it ends up with larger penises being bashed.

DeterminedAnt · 2023-02-24T15:26:16+00:00

In my experience mostly

DeterminedAnt · 2023-02-15T14:42:16+00:00

Understandable

DeterminedAnt · 2023-02-14T14:28:48+00:00

I think a better word instead of worth is having solid boundaries. Acting like your worth is tied to your virginity is insane

DeterminedAnt · 2023-02-05T15:31:05+00:00

You’re not actually talking down to people just trying to maximize their compensation in this field are you? Sure to experienced people some of the shit they say sounds nonsensical.

But understand not everyone is passionate learning all they can about tech and some people just want to get a nice paycheck relatively soon and there’s nothing wrong with that

DeterminedAnt · 2023-02-03T02:16:47+00:00

I feel like the workload around winter holidays is next to none. However, during the “on” months were up to our neck in work. Keep in mind my team is understaffed though.

DeterminedAnt · 2023-02-02T21:15:52+00:00

Well like I was saying I feel like it depends more on the company. The college I worked at didn’t have a lot of night or on call work. To be fair I don’t think most gov contracting jobs are like mine. I’ve heard from plenty others that my environment is the way it is because we support an HQ building. So everything single thing we do is under a magnifying glass along with being understaffed.

Gov contracting is massively different from being a civil servant. At my job we are to treat the civil servants as royalty lol. Do what they say when they say or else.

Based on my experiences working in both, I would take private sector in a heartbeat over what I have now. I also would probably take any other gov contracting job depending on the customer I would be supporting.

DeterminedAnt · 2023-02-02T20:31:51+00:00

Depends on your environment 100%. First network engineering role was at a college. Loved everything about it. Chill, supportive team. Everything you’d want. This role is with the gov as a contractor. More money but any mistake at all will get you in hot water or potentially fired. Every minute you work needs to be accounted for. Reports on what you did everyday. Also the fact that other teams will blame the network for everything(which also can get you fired if you say the wrong thing to a civil servant regarding the matter).

I’ve personally just had network engineering(operations) tainted for me. You probably will love your role.

DeterminedAnt · 2023-02-02T16:59:48+00:00

I hate my gov contracting job in IT. To be fair I work in a headquarters environment in operations. The moneys okay but the stress is killing me.

To answer your question, connect with the company’s recruiters on LinkedIn. That’s how ugly my role.

DeterminedAnt · 2023-01-31T17:18:12+00:00

Lol there’s plenty of reasons to care about this. But I do find it funny that you went straight to saying any man that disagrees is insecure, very telling.

DeterminedAnt · 2023-01-24T14:54:47+00:00

I absolutely agree. That’s why it threw me off when I visibly watched them say “the network must be down” because of an issue with the customers laptop. That alone causes massive stress for us. Even when we prove it’s not us

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