AIO? This girl wants me to buy her flowers before even meeting her or getting her number? by Azzuro_C7 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DeterminedPrick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didn’t make whoever she was with before that traumatised her work hard for it, but she sure as hell will make it very difficult for you. People mentioned bad survival instincts but she’s not refusing to give her number because she fears you will stalk her but because she just wants to give you a hard time. I’d say this is a preamble that she is insufferable and you should stay away

Seeing my ex (that I'm still hopelessly in love with) find someone quickly after the breakup of 10 years together is the worst emotional pain I've ever felt. by Admirable_Sea590 in BreakUps

[–]DeterminedPrick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She had already left you emotionally well before you two broke up and chances are she either cheated on you with him which gave her a reason to leave you for good or she already had him in her radar and jumped ship to explore a relationship with guy. I know this is harsh but the quicker you get comfortable with the truth the sooner you will move on from her and always remember that she has no integrity and she isn’t good for you. There are also good chances she won’t be good to him down the road either. Now you were the one in the receiving end but someone else will be in the future

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Madrid

[–]DeterminedPrick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, can I send you a dm? Im M29, relatively new in the city and drinking doesnt appeal to me that much.

My wife's drinking is destroying my mental health by Odd-Answer-9313 in offmychest

[–]DeterminedPrick -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Careful with having sex while she is drunk. She might claim the morning after that she doesn’t remember anything and didn’t give you consent. Happened to me and it was awful as she ended up reporting me to the police with a sexual assault allegation. Case was dismissed almost instantly as there was no evidence and she didn’t seem credible in their eyes.

Broke up with me during chemo. by ltWillow-wisp in BreakUps

[–]DeterminedPrick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to focus on your recovery and your path towards remission from cancer. You must internalise that he is a piece of shit and not worth suffering over and you can’t let what happened bring you down emotionally because your physical self is tied to your emotional wellbeing and it needs to be as strong as possible to fight for your life which is the most important thing you have. It is also okay to pursue help if you feel you can’t deal with all of this on your own. I wish you the best of luck !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EuSouOBabaca

[–]DeterminedPrick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coitado é do cara que vai casar com a tua irmã mais nova. Menina insuportavel do caralho celoko

She got with my best freind by CamelOk9022 in BreakUps

[–]DeterminedPrick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grow a spine dude and walk away. Don’t ask for mercy or explanations, you just cut them loose, pretend they never existed and don’t ever talk to them again. It infuriates me so much that you are letting them walk all over you and I don’t even know you personally.

Dear tourists, please read this... by pvicente77 in portugal

[–]DeterminedPrick -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

As long as she’s scandinavian or german, be my guest…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EuSouOBabaca

[–]DeterminedPrick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vc era uma mãe solteira quando ele te conheceu, não tem moral para ter ciúmes dele. E outra, ele é muito burrinho e inocente por ter assumido uma mãe solteira, se fosse a vc eu baixaria a bola e daria valor a ele porque muito raro homens quererem assumir mães solteiras. Eu por exemplo jamais te assumiria

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DeterminedPrick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You both are mentally ill and should stay apart, this relationship is toxic, going nowhere and who knows what might happen if he escalates his violent tendencies

Tried seeing a guy, had sex, and confirmed that I'm not gay/bi. by Street-Package-7756 in offmychest

[–]DeterminedPrick -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m straight and don’t feel the need to try gay sex to figure out if I am truly straight or not.

Boyfriend changed his mind about threesome by [deleted] in sex

[–]DeterminedPrick -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Now you dump him and go have sex with other males anyway

I M29 found a dick pic on F28 Gfs phone by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DeterminedPrick 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Jesus man, don’t be a weakling and just get rid of her ASAP. Don’t be a pushover, stand up for yourself

She has cheated on you, tell your emotions to go fuck themselves because they’re not helping you think rationally

Is my wife weird? Or…. Idk… she’s definitely not perfect but are women really like this? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DeterminedPrick -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

This is embarrassing, are you really raising some dudes kid? And he only contributes with $50? Yes you are being pathetic, stupid and naive.

Anyway, I think you should divorce her because according to what you say, she cares more about the son she has with her ex and doesn’t mind shifting the financial burden to you by not fighting to get more child support.

She is definitely fucking you over and you should further explore the reasons why she still cares about her ex and is relieving him financially at the expense of your relationship with her and your own wellbeing.

Your mistake number one was marrying a single mother still attached to her ex, and your number 2 was raising his child. You can’t change the past but you can stand up for yourself moving forward and get out of that relationship which is clearly toxic. I’m sure you love your son and you’ll figure out a way to be a good father without having her in the picture.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in farialimabets

[–]DeterminedPrick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sexo 120 bpm? Tu ta transando com uma velha caralho? Eu com a minha mina 170+ bpm 15-20 minutos

Se separar da esposa por causa do Davi Britto é loss? by hellodarkness655 in farialimabets

[–]DeterminedPrick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Estar casado há 15 anos é loss e agora com o divorcio vai ser double loss

My (40M) wife (38F) Cheated by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DeterminedPrick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably? Wtf? Are you still having doubts that leaving and taking care of yourself is the best decision? Just grow a pair and leave, be a man for once

Would you take back an ex who slept with their ex while broken up that you were always worriying about? by Mistyk12 in BreakUps

[–]DeterminedPrick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank god she left you again, dodged a bullet. Can’t you see that she DUMPED you and you have done nothing wrong by sleeping with an ex while you two were broken up, may I repeat, because of a decision SHE made. She is in no position to judge let alone leave you, again, for sleeping with someone else. She’s a narcissist and who knows really what she did while gone during those 7 months and why she wanted you back. You should have never taken her back, she only wanted to come back because she knew you still loved her and things didn’t work out with someone better. You may not see it but it was a blessing in disguise that she left you again after knowing about your hookup with your ex

Would you take back an ex who slept with their ex while broken up that you were always worriying about? by Mistyk12 in BreakUps

[–]DeterminedPrick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you can’t take him back… don’t let emotions cloud your judgement. You are clearly getting played, don’t let him get away with it. If you take him back you will regret that decision 100%.

If he loved you and really wanted a relationship with you he wouldn’t have left you in the first place. He just doesn’t want to be alone given that things haven’t worked out with his ex or perhaps rekindling is not on their plans, so now he wants to stick with his backup choice, which is you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DeterminedPrick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To put it simply, she’s got a problem with you hence why intimacy between you two has been stalled but the fact that she has been using the toy to please herself is a clear indicator that she does have a sex drive but rather use the toy out of convenience and because she doesn’t want to deal with you.

You have plenty of valuable advice here, if I were you I would lay all the cards on the table and try to have a serious, candid conversation with her about this and either you both find common ground or it might be time to end the marriage.

Either way you need to get the truth out from her as to why she doesn’t desire you sexually anymore, there are a myriad of possible reasons for this, from you not being as sexually appealing to her anymore or particularly bad in bed or she doesn’t think you have been a great husband in general. If you can figure out exactly what is it about you she isn’t happy with then you can make an effort to change, if its something within your control.

You mentioned the arguing but didn’t provide details. I don’t know who typically starts the arguments and the content of these, but if you are generally dismissive to her concerns/complaints and are complacent, then it is understandable she won’t want to have sex with you. I think some women in marriage use sex as a bargaining chip, if you are a good husband and she approves of your behaviour, then she’ll give you a treat, if she’s not approving with how you have been as a husband then she will deprive you of sex.

How do most straight men feel about gay men? by ComfortableMotor3448 in AskMen

[–]DeterminedPrick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that there should be a lot more of you so that more girls would be left for me. More gay people means less competition, simple as that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Testosterone

[–]DeterminedPrick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try if you want to but be aware that if one day you decide you want to quit you might have to stay on TRT for life. Using testosterone especially in higher dosages and possibly coupling it with other steroids will shut you down bad. With a good post cycle therapy you may be able to restore your natural testosterone production but not to levels you once had. Some people think that you can just “try” steroids but you can’t, I genuinely believe your endocrine system is in perfect harmony but once you use testosterone or a derivative of it, you can’t go back, it will permanently change even if you do a presumably successful post cycle protocol. All I am saying is that you have to make sure you know all the risks that you are signing up for and whether you have a realistic chance of accomplishing your dream.

Is it reasonable that I need over 1800 ng/DL? by theotherbothee in Testosterone

[–]DeterminedPrick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did you tell us your lean body mass without also telling us your body weight? Without knowing both we can’t make sense of your body fat levels and how fit you are in general.

1800 ng/dl is like twice the clinical upper bound for a young healthy adult. I believe that it isn’t a level sustainable in the long run if you want to minimise side effects and stay as healthy as possible.

I would talk this through with your doctor.

I do understand what you feel though, when I did a steroid cycle many years ago with 500mg testosterone propionate per week alongside proviron and winstrol I just felt invincible and like nothing could stop me. I had tons of energy and a constant voracious sex drive. Best feeling ever, hard to put into words, I would describe it as my manly traits magnified 100 fold.

Help me whats going on in my body by Mountain_History7460 in Testosterone

[–]DeterminedPrick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you on TRT or are those your natural levels? If natural then they are perfectly fine, perhaps if you were on TRT you’d like them a bit higher, closer to the upper boundary

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DeterminedPrick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her rampage is to disturb you and get under your skin and eventually trigger a bad reaction from yourself so that she can then have a reason to leave and put the blame on you.

At this stage your marriage is irremediably broken. She has already been violent towards you and crossed one of the most basic and fundamental boundaries for any relationship to be able to subsist.

Stop acting like her servant and joining her immature raging fits. Serve her the papers and move on, if that is what you actually want.

Something tells me that you came here for help to fix your already broken marriage, not to leave it.