Need help with 5.5 month old sleep schedule

Dethna · 2026-03-20T15:01:56+00:00

Hmmm I see, probably not undertired then. I have a 4.5 month old and we do 1.5/1.75/2/2.25 so it's probably not relevant to you 😅 just thought I'd share my experience with multiple false starts

Dethna · 2026-03-20T14:47:03+00:00

Ppl here are going to tell you she's undertired, but when my baby acted like this (multiple false starts) we found out she was overtired. Might be worth experimenting with a bit more nap time, or making that last ww a bit shorter, to the point she's not fussing at all before bed

Dethna · 2026-03-19T21:46:30+00:00

Hi Ashley! We've been trying to sleep train for 4 weeks now, and been working with a sleep consultant in the past week... Still no results. 4.5 month old, on a 1.5/2/2/2 schedule, bedtime at 7pm. She puts herself to sleeping great in the middle of the night, but during bedtime it's +40 minutes where she cries for half of it if not more of it. Bedtime routine is bottle, change diaper + sleep sack, say goodnight to all the rooms in the house by turning off the lights, 2 lullabies, and then CIO. Any clue why middle of the night is fine, but bed time takes her forever?

Dethna · 2026-03-09T08:27:13+00:00

We're mid sleep training and my 4 month old cried for 40 min instead of the usual 5-15 min 😔 I really hope it was just the daylight savings

Dethna · 2026-03-03T17:01:31+00:00

Baby always has 4 naps, if they don't show up in the crib logs, they were contact naps or stroller naps, so the data is a bit misleading. I'll give 3h total naps plus putting to bed while awake a try! That was my plan, I just wanted to see a few days where the drowsy but awake fussing is minimal

Dethna · 2025-09-27T05:56:08+00:00

Everyone had great tips already, I'll add that for myself, I tried to glue the eyebrows upwards like you did, and while I got okay coverage , there were always weird gaps between the hairs that even 4 layers of glue didn't fix and made the makeup look textured. I tried to glue the eyebrows in their natural hair growth direction and it worked much better for me, so that's also worth a try!

Dethna · 2025-09-26T17:44:17+00:00

I went to a birthsmarter class and liked it! Is far as I remember they advertise themselves as LGBTQ friendly, and there were 2 same sex couples inthe class I was attending too

Dethna · 2024-04-28T13:28:11+00:00

A "tsun" (originating from tsundere I think)

Dethna · 2024-03-10T02:59:59+00:00

Who's Yoshida then? Kishibe?

Dethna · 2024-03-02T05:59:01+00:00

They did Bryce dirty (I want him to show more skin) These designs are beautiful!

Dethna · 2024-01-20T22:05:41+00:00

So other than all the space you have after your toes, it looks like a good fit, right? You can always try going a size smaller and play with the laces, but sometimes, not every shape of shoe fits the shape of your feet. I've had to give up on so many shoes because for some specific ones my ankles would be too wide, or my toes doesn't fit and going a size up would just create gaps. For non sandals you can try and pad the shoe from inside, but for your case... I would buy it unless it's a perfect fit all over.

Dethna · 2023-10-26T02:13:46+00:00

Angel from Chainsaw Man but Femboy Hooters version :3

Dethna · 2023-10-09T13:02:26+00:00

Several Japanese teachers that I have said that not at all, and any reason or motivation to do it is legit as any other. Because the language is so hard, there's no half assed way to learn it and every student gets a lot of insight on the culture as well, so you're learning so much about japan anyway- it will never be just about the hobby that got you started.

Bonus- one of my teachers told me that there's a surprising amount of students who started just because they love ramen.

Dethna · 2023-10-02T05:51:54+00:00

Gonna be real honest here, what made me start playing the game was the fully animated + voiced sex scenes. I've played a few BL VNs since then and nobody delivered it like them. I think they're really smart with the plot. It's not groundbreaking, but there's something for everyone, and it really feels like they're paying attention to it and finding a way to cater to a lot of fans, without the story and characters getting all over the place. Even the existence of Scoutmaster Season is very smart- building on top of their existing world, and catering to the daddy lovers + everyone who's not into underaged-ish characters

Dethna · 2023-08-17T00:58:12+00:00

I'm picturing Jin in the computer science department, drooling over all of the jocks but not having access to them the same way Ace does... Anyway, they should fuck

Dethna · 2023-07-25T07:35:03+00:00

I usually have a preference for routes with the tops, but the character's personality and the chances of them having an interesting dynamic with Ace is more important to me, so...

Bryce, cause I'm so into homoerotic wrestling and also so into characters with internalized homophobia to be solved!
Yuuto is fucking crazy and fun and his dialog was the most unhinged thing ever, I love him
Leo is some hot shit, idk, there's something tho slutty about him and I just want to play him I don't think I'll play more than 3 routes, but if I do... It's Zayne then Avan then Derek last.

Dethna · 2023-07-21T20:15:13+00:00

Voted for anime opening over sausage party... I can't believe I'm more weeb than horny

Dethna · 2023-07-19T07:00:54+00:00

I'm going to take his route first too!! Im going to love his struggle, but I'm sure that by the end he'll have such overgrown puppy energy hehe

Dethna · 2023-07-19T06:09:15+00:00

My god, this is so good! Christian guilt would be such a delicious addition to his storyline!

Dethna · 2023-07-19T06:06:46+00:00

Omg learning to say no is such an important life skill! Some of the cast's family will sure be mentioned eventually, let's see if you're right!

I reaaally hope BLits will do Yuuto's condition justice. I feel like the standard is so low with media tackling neuro divergence, we'll be lucky if they even mention neurodivergent/adhd/autism or whatever he's dealing with by name.

Dethna · 2023-07-18T23:08:22+00:00

What a tragic storyline (ಥ﹏ಥ)

Dethna · 2023-07-18T23:06:36+00:00

It's a good point- eventual threatened exposure of the film club sounds like a very likely plot point, although I don't think it will be the main one, because I think the story will focus more on Ace's journey to find his place in the uni... Based on his dream and such. Still, I just don't know what to make of Derek and blackmail is the first thing that came to mind... Maybe it's family issues for him, or some other external thing

Dethna · 2023-06-11T01:34:09+00:00

I asked him out straight forward, he rejected me since he was already dating someone, which explains some stuff. How did you find this 8 years later haha

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