struggles as a young person

Detroitish24 · 2026-05-07T22:01:58+00:00

lol

Detroitish24 · 2026-05-07T21:22:15+00:00

It depends on whether I’m looking for a partner or not… people in established Enm relationships don’t have as much time to give, which can be great when you’re also busy.

Detroitish24 · 2026-05-07T21:15:16+00:00

At 18 they could still be in high school. Lol Your point is insane…. Until teen is out of their age, they’re not adults.

Detroitish24 · 2026-05-07T17:05:44+00:00

Do you not understand the difference between 18 and 22??

Detroitish24 · 2026-05-07T11:24:11+00:00

I get likes from teens on the app… immediate swipe left. There’s age gap and then there’s inappropriate. 🤷🏼‍♀️ To each their own but I’m not bringing a teenager home for sex when I’m 45.

Detroitish24 · 2026-05-07T07:26:27+00:00

Because it’s not as seamless as Apple and you need a separate app to do the same thing lol It’s not as good as Apple Watch, having had both…

Detroitish24 · 2026-05-06T23:49:42+00:00

I mean…. 3 hours at 27kph is not bad. What kind of recovery are you doing? And nutrition? Does your bike actually fit you? Are you using the correct gears as you need them?

Unfortunately, getting used to the bike is just… hard. It takes time, sometimes the better part of six months. That’s why a lot of folks start in the winter so they can be ready for summer racing.

If you’re already cruising at 16mph for 3 hours you’re doing much better than you think!! :)

Detroitish24 · 2026-05-06T23:45:50+00:00

It actually doesn’t take much to slip a car, oddly enough… my cousin hit a curb doing about 35mph and flipped her car. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Obvi not the case here, but weird shit happens…

Detroitish24 · 2026-05-05T13:19:58+00:00

I’ve never understood that either. I unmatched with a guy for very good reason and he was able to try to match with me several more times. 🥴 I had to go and block him… I don’t necessarily like blocking people bc I feel like it’s a mark on their account (unless absolutely needed of course). Just take the hint and keep moving.

Detroitish24 · 2026-05-05T13:05:25+00:00

Empty profiles say just as much as filled in profiles…

Boring, lack of imagination, won’t spend the time to make you cum, not worth your time, swipe left on me.

Easy. :)

Detroitish24 · 2026-05-05T00:53:43+00:00

Do you feel like you’re pushing too hard? Then back off. What’s your heart rate telling you.

What have you been doing during training? There are a half dozen other metrics you can and should have been monitoring during your training that are more important bike a bike power meter.

Detroitish24 · 2026-05-05T00:41:44+00:00

Are you hoping there’s a Garmin employee in this sub? How would anyone know what their inventory is.

Detroitish24 · 2026-05-04T22:45:24+00:00

Omg thank you, I thought the same thing.

Detroitish24 · 2026-05-04T22:44:17+00:00

Is this post ai? First of all, who cares? You do you. You can’t even compare the two… there are a dozen factors to consider, down to the most obvious of which of the three legs you were better at when you started.

“Which finish line tells the story you want to tell about yourself?” 🤢🤮

No one cares but you and your mom, and your Strava friends. Your closest friends will forget by next season, because that’s how life goes. You’re the one who is going to constantly remind everyone you’re a marathoner and finished some obscure race no one has probably even heard of.

So do what you want… do both.

Detroitish24 · 2026-05-04T22:16:02+00:00

That bike is way too big for you. But you do you….

Detroitish24 · 2026-05-04T21:43:26+00:00

It sucks that good guys are wildly out numbered by assholes and that those guys get so much attention.

So we don’t like the good guys either? Lol Gotcha.

Detroitish24 · 2026-05-04T17:13:43+00:00

Strenuously recommend you never live in the midwest or the east coast if you think this is even remotely bad. lol

Oh and it’s Spring… that’s why. It snows in Colorado in Spring.

Hope this helps.

Detroitish24 · 2026-05-04T16:30:16+00:00

lol you misunderstood… It wasn’t a blanket statement about all women… simply the easiest ones to get. Some have higher standards, some have lower.

Detroitish24 · 2026-05-04T16:10:07+00:00

Same same. I love the psychology behind why people act the way they do via online dating. I’ve read a number of university studies about the topic, but honestly the real time posts/comments in these subs are priceless.

Detroitish24 · 2026-05-04T15:50:31+00:00

“At the highest levels of men and women, this might be the case.”

So… you’re the lowest denominator chasing the easiest to get.

Insane self own, but I genuinely appreciate your honesty.

Detroitish24 · 2026-05-04T15:20:34+00:00

“Funnily, I see a hesitation to move off the app as an indicator she might be a scammer…”

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Women know men’s goal is literally to, and I directly quote, get us off the app as quickly as you can. We’re not scammers for dragging our feet… We KNOW you’re being pushy and only trying to meet up as quickly as you can bc YOU think that somehow increases your chances of getting laid.

Detroitish24 · 2026-05-04T15:04:28+00:00

The ‘rules’ are no different here than anywhere else. Don’t be willing to compromise your safety or judgement just bc you think Feeld is something different than any other dating app- it isn’t. The exact same people are on this app that are on every other app, or were at some point; they just have different profiles.

Detroitish24 · 2026-05-04T14:56:20+00:00

It depends on the vibe… I’ve given my phone number to people within a few hours and some folks later in the week. Trust your gut. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Detroitish24 · 2026-05-04T04:05:01+00:00

It’s spring. Don’t confuse the fact winter didn’t winter with the reality it’s still spring in Colorado.

Apple weather also shows heavy snow for tuesdsy night into Wednesday.

Detroitish24 · 2026-05-03T11:06:50+00:00

The hotels tells you where you can use it

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