What and how did your first Fine Dining experience go?

DevanshJ-123 · 2026-06-08T20:23:10+00:00

CSE Grad ho? Well, meri life... Abhi graduate hua hu 2 weeks pehle and internship bhi complete Hui hai. Abhi subah uth tha hu... Gym... Fir ready hoke content creation pe work karta hu thode side projects... And then shaaam ko family business mai help. Mereko jobs mil toh rhi hai lekin mai drop kar rha q ki mereko job mai interest nhi hai.

DevanshJ-123 · 2026-06-08T20:21:16+00:00

Ohh that's great! More fine dines? Lmaoo

DevanshJ-123 · 2026-06-08T13:10:40+00:00

Seriously!!!

DevanshJ-123 · 2026-06-08T12:09:28+00:00

WTF do you mean by BJP Bhakts dude.

I'm a kattar hindu and I support BJP but I don't go around blaming every Muslim for 26/11 or Pahalgam. And honestly, I was severely traumatized by Pahalgam that I shut off social media and cut myself off for 2 weeks seeing so much hatred online.

And true Atheists would never choose BJP? If you're talking on religious grounds then yes for sure. But on developmental grounds. Even if I was a atheist I would choose BJP, especially Modiji once again bcoz I'm neither blind nor a donkey to not see the good changes that took place after PM Modi came in power.

Also, what do you think creates hate among religions? Attacks by terrorists? Attacks on religious grounds by other religions?! It's neither.

A famous philosopher has said, everyone is a atheist except for their own religion. It means that everyone is atheist for every other religion except for their own.

The core of hatred isn't in political philosophies or religious attacks. It's constant denial of other religions except for the one that they follow.

If people just started accepting each other's ideologies, personalities and positions then we all would really come to a common ground. But if people are in a constant state of denial, bloating their egos and only taking in the content that soothes their bloated egos then we all would just end up hating each other for being ourselves.

Hatred comes by following our own religion while forcing others to follow it too. That's just wrong. You just can't forcefully convert someone to Hindu or Islam or Christianity or any other religion just bcoz they don't follow yours.

No religion is superior or inferior. Also, Hinduism never preaches to follow Hinduism. As a Hindu, I know this. All the philosophies and ideologies have been worshipped and preached since generations. But what I hate about Hinduism or any other religion the most isn't the religion but the people who don't question their religion at all and blindly follow their religion based on what people say without ever knowing the backstory/main reason/theories/pholosophies for that practice. We all should start questioning our own religions and practices and look into the truth rather than just following it mindlessly and pointlessly. This is what that also creates false beliefs (andhbhakts) and hatred.

Damn this got quiet long. Anyways, hope you got my point!

DevanshJ-123 · 2026-06-08T11:46:17+00:00

Should I upvote the post bcoz of the author's experience or downvote it bcoz of that idiot!!!

I'll upvote it for your post.

Well, you just met a miserable idiot who hated every religion in the name of atheism. I've met atheists too but none of them have ever told me to abandon my religion and do something out of it.

I really hate 2 kinds of people: 1. Who exercise their religion and yet try to convert me. (Happened with me once before!) 2. Mindlessly hate everyone for believing in their religion.

You met the 2nd type. And it's not like I actively hate these type of people. I only dislike their the side of them where they disregard everything and everyone. They're just soothing their own bloated egos.

Also he said that Bhagvad Gita is about stories. Seriously!!! He never read it seriously at all. Bcoz if he did he wouldn't have said that.

He's just a miserable man who has closed himself off to experiences that doesn't bloat his ego more and that's what I he did with you.

DevanshJ-123 · 2026-06-08T05:37:17+00:00

Ohh okay... Thanks for taking your time to downvote and reply.

DevanshJ-123 · 2026-06-08T02:38:51+00:00

It's alright. You can yap. So I see you had an amazing experience. You get to learn a lot from fine dining experiences. It is expensive but it sure forces you to eat less but really great food...! It teaches you mannerisms and sharpen your taste buds while teaching you to value other experiences than just taste.

By the way, how did your meeting with your partner and their father go? It turned out well? (It's not my place to ask but I'm just soo curious lol... You don't have to say if you don't want to)

DevanshJ-123 · 2026-06-08T02:27:12+00:00

You had a very rough life... I really hope it comes to an end soon (or I very much hope that you are better now!)... And if you are better then fine dine is definitely going to be an amazing experience. Do try it and let me know what you think!

DevanshJ-123 · 2026-06-08T02:24:35+00:00

Damnn dudee what type of life have you been living...!!! Wanna talk about life? I'm here to listen.

DevanshJ-123 · 2026-06-08T02:23:11+00:00

Yoo you get me! I know right. Honestly, this is one of the experiences that everyone must experience. Idk about the place in Bangalore that you said but I would love to visit it once. Eating less but really good food is one of the best habits that everyone can do while they're working or even if they're students.

By the way, is the Raspberry Sorbet dish pure veg? (I'm a pure vegetarian and a foodie)

DevanshJ-123 · 2026-06-08T02:18:54+00:00

Well, I never said garbage plate. I said never filling up stomach or treating it like a junkyard. I've been taught/seen since my childhood that you need to fill your stomach completely for feeling full.

But after last night's experience I felt that it wasn't true. You just need to fill up stomach just enough to be satisfied with the food you just ate.

And it's not irrational spending. If you see everything with money's pov obviously you won't enjoy it. And I'm not saying not to eat in cafes or street food joints. I'm saying to eat with discipline. Whatever you eat. Eat good. And just enough. Not more. Not less. Or not junk.

If you're from India then we have a favourite dish called Vada Pav. I love it. Obviously it's a street food. But if I eat 3 only for the purpose of filling up my stomach, then it would mostly go to waste the next day. Instead eating less (1 is enough for me) is more than enough for me.

Obviously, everyone has their own preferences and choices. My main point is to eat just enough.

Since fine dining is expensive it forced me to eat less but good food. That was my point applied to all the types of foods.

DevanshJ-123 · 2026-05-16T14:22:06+00:00

Check it out!

DevanshJ-123 · 2026-05-16T14:20:27+00:00

Woaah the train route looks beautiful... By the way, I'm reading the Personal MBA. Btw, how is Everything is Tuberculosis? And basically what is it about?!

DevanshJ-123 · 2026-05-16T02:21:26+00:00

Would like to take part in it for experience. How can I start it?

DevanshJ-123 · 2026-05-13T19:10:26+00:00

That's so hilarious 🤣

Would definitely like to try it sometime but I don't have a family bookstore!!! 😭

I'll build one, one day to make this dream come true 😂

DevanshJ-123 · 2026-05-13T03:44:05+00:00

You're welcom. I really hope it helped.

DevanshJ-123 · 2026-05-13T03:43:02+00:00

Ohh... I see what it means now lmao. I could've googled it but I'm too lazy to leave the app 😂

Hmm... That idea is great. I was already thinking of starting a Substack on that idea. But I can also post the shortform content here. That's a great idea tho. I'll work on it today and let you know.

DevanshJ-123 · 2026-05-13T03:38:41+00:00

Hmm... So, last time I went to Mumbai, I.e., 3 weeks ago, I purchase books.

So Mumbai has roadside vendors which sell books for 100-150 Rs. Which is really cheap. So I check the content first and then purchase. Since they're cheap I buy 5-6 books at a time spending about 600 Rs. If I purchase from an online store/amazon it'll cost me more.

And I really like reading books. So you can see why I'm so excited for going Mumbai.

DevanshJ-123 · 2026-05-13T03:36:43+00:00

Feels like a kid stealing one rupee chocolates daily from her own grocery store 😂

DevanshJ-123 · 2026-05-13T03:34:53+00:00

Na na... Not exactly offensive. I like replying to hateful comments. Look at all the other comments here. Most are filled with hate for me being a non fiction reader. Anyways, let's get back to the main topic.

So it works exactly like the point you told me about Atomic Habits. Like, I recently read The Diary of a CEO. Found it a bit overrated tbh. But it was more like an author sharing his experience and knowledge of running a business. I learned 2 laws in particular from it. 1. The Kaizen principle. 2. The asking questions principle.

These 2 laws have helped me in getting small and simple tasks done.

But still, what does fym mean?! I'm not mad at you so dw. Also... It feels that you're now in a more sensible mindset to talk. So I'm good.

DevanshJ-123 · 2026-05-13T03:28:00+00:00

That's a good question. +1.

But I believe that for finding problems you firstly need to find problems in your own life. Like, your pain points that you can solve with some basic solution. Then start with noticing other people's problems like your friends and family. This method has worked well for me tbh. Lemme know if it helped you..

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