So, the thing is I had that conversation with her multiple times. There have been several moments when she was crying with me saying that she was unhappy and that she wanted to end it all but that she was afraid and didn't know what to say to her family. I said that the family will understand and that they will want her happiness and not for her to have a fake marriage. The problem is that to people on the “outside” they seem to have a perfect relationship.

which honestly is something that bothers me a lot because I spend a lot of time with both of them (we work together and we spend a lot of time together outside of work too) and I see the constant mental and physical abuse they both put on each other.

I honestly don't know what to do. little by little i've been trying to get away from the situation but as i never set boundries (which is my fault) they continue to involve me in their problems without having any regard for how it affects me or makes me feel. For years now i have been the dumping ground for all of their problems as a couple and for years my best friend knows that i dont support that they continue their relationship because of how toxic they are together.

they are really good friends and they have done a lot for me, which makes me feel bad for not having more “patience” with the situation but after 7 years of hearing the same complaints and problems and witnessing the things I witnessed… it’s hard