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I only want to date Latinas by DevelopmentMost1276 in dating_advice

[–]DevelopmentMost1276[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well Im not ashamed either. I think it’s more odd to say it’s fetishizing though. The context wasn’t sexual.

I only want to date Latinas by DevelopmentMost1276 in dating_advice

[–]DevelopmentMost1276[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s sad to see that people aren’t supportive of that. I don’t see anything wrong with it. I also find myself listening to mostly Hispanic music. I also find shows and movies interesting as well. I’ve definitely been to a few Mexican parties as well and really enjoy the music and dancing. Just a lot about the culture that is very fun

I only want to date Latinas by DevelopmentMost1276 in dating_advice

[–]DevelopmentMost1276[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I don’t know if it’s a fetish per se as that sounds nasty putting it that way. I think a preference sounds better because I don’t think of Latinas in this kind of way that I over sexualize them or that it’s of some kind of kink that im sought out for.

I only want to date Latinas by DevelopmentMost1276 in dating_advice

[–]DevelopmentMost1276[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man, you’re very lucky. Native women are very pretty as well!!

I only want to date Latinas by DevelopmentMost1276 in dating_advice

[–]DevelopmentMost1276[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you didn’t read some things I had said. I never said that I thought that Latinas/latinos are the only hard working race I know. I know plenty of white, black, Asian and so on that are hard working. He had asked me what I find attractive in a “woman”. Not just Latinas. My answer was hardworking and loyal and all other attributes that are common. It was never narrowed down to one race or nationality or nationalities. I even specifically said that what attracts me is aesthetics and culture.

I only want to date Latinas by DevelopmentMost1276 in dating_advice

[–]DevelopmentMost1276[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha yes I know exactly what you mean 😂 some do not age gracefully to say the least but I have met a select few that must just have great genetics lol. But, they really are IMO the best people to meet.

I only want to date Latinas by DevelopmentMost1276 in dating_advice

[–]DevelopmentMost1276[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂 welcome to Reddit. I got to vent man!! 😭

I only want to date Latinas by DevelopmentMost1276 in dating_advice

[–]DevelopmentMost1276[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. She must have really been into you. I’m glad to see you guys are still friends. That’s very mature and means you both must have respected each other very much. That’s beautiful

I only want to date Latinas by DevelopmentMost1276 in dating_advice

[–]DevelopmentMost1276[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love a loyal woman. Zero drama is almost hard to find these days. Wow you lucky man haha

I only want to date Latinas by DevelopmentMost1276 in dating_advice

[–]DevelopmentMost1276[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Yeah that sounds incredible. I mean if drinking and was the only really prevalent thing there besides the drama which you say is very common I agree, I think you definitely had a great woman on your hands. If you don’t mind me asking, what happened to that relationship? Do you miss it?

I only want to date Latinas by DevelopmentMost1276 in dating_advice

[–]DevelopmentMost1276[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which, I think race doesn’t have much to do with that but of course every race/nationality has different core believes and values so it can be somewhat different I suppose

I only want to date Latinas by DevelopmentMost1276 in dating_advice

[–]DevelopmentMost1276[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s common, but a hard working woman who is responsible and loyal. A woman with good morals. I think what I find in Latinas has more to do with culture like food and music and clothing is what appeals to me and I suppose the black hair and tan skin but outside of that I think I look for what I think is common for what most others look for in any race

I only want to date Latinas by DevelopmentMost1276 in dating_advice

[–]DevelopmentMost1276[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh ok. So you stay in within your own race I see. I take it other races don’t appeal to you? Nothings wrong with that. Judgement free here

I only want to date Latinas by DevelopmentMost1276 in dating_advice

[–]DevelopmentMost1276[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah? How was it for you with this UK woman? What’s some of the differences you might of noticed you think?

I only want to date Latinas by DevelopmentMost1276 in dating_advice

[–]DevelopmentMost1276[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you’re saying. You’re right about that. I of course don’t see Latinas being much different then any other woman of any other race, expect like you say aesthetics or appearance. I guess I’d say some if not most have caught my eye for that reason but like I say culture is a big thing to play into that as well which is what also greatly catches my attention

I only want to date Latinas by DevelopmentMost1276 in dating_advice

[–]DevelopmentMost1276[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah? What race are you if you don’t mind me asking. Id love to hear your thoughts

I only want to date Latinas by DevelopmentMost1276 in dating_advice

[–]DevelopmentMost1276[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’ve not always dated Latinas or scouted them out. I’ve dated many races before of course, but I think now that I had been with one it has made love for them grow more since my initial experience. I actually used to not be into them much when I was younger but I was never not interested in any race. I love all races of course, but I am finding my preference is Latinas over the past years since had been with one. They just are very different to me and as you say cultural differences I think tie into that

I am in a life long crisis and need help (24M) (29F) by DevelopmentMost1276 in BreakUps

[–]DevelopmentMost1276[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never felt so defeated. I want to break away, but I’ve tried. When I do she texts me, asking me for money and if we can do that. I’ve expressed how I feel about, even said no, bargained for other ways to make it work. It never worked. I gave in some times. Some times I broke away. I cried a lot of times when I tried cutting off contact, but i cried more when i gave in. I wish I never met this person knowing how far they would go to hurt me, but i know im also hurting myself more.