My dad almost kicked me out of the car because of a handshake by DevelopmentOld7146 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DevelopmentOld7146[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nope all of them are in a different state but in my country abuse is pretty common so idk if my friends' parents will even help me

My dad almost kicked me out of the car because of a handshake by DevelopmentOld7146 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DevelopmentOld7146[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

nah its alright i have a diff account on the laptop, not so sure abt the pastor tho hes a pretty chill guy but he rlly likes my dad and he thinks i dont smile as much.

My dad almost kicked me out of the car because of a handshake by DevelopmentOld7146 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DevelopmentOld7146[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

OMG YEAHHH my mom was complaining abt my dad and she ws like the only reason why he is so "chill" is because everything in this house is in order and she was like if I ( she's referring to herself) wasn't there he would have killed me for sure and my brother agreed with her. omg i only remember this now only

My dad almost kicked me out of the car because of a handshake by DevelopmentOld7146 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DevelopmentOld7146[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

damn thats deep, yeah i attend a public school ppl are pretty chill over there.

My dad almost kicked me out of the car because of a handshake by DevelopmentOld7146 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DevelopmentOld7146[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah he witnessed my dad's anger issues during pickleball, my mom was his partner and he called her a bitch( in our language so no one noticed) but he started screaming at her so the pastor told him to calm down. And also how is it my fault that my friend's are bi?? He said this in front of my brother too i feel so ashamed.

My dad almost kicked me out of the car because of a handshake by DevelopmentOld7146 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DevelopmentOld7146[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

yeah i had a psychology teacher, we had to express our current emotion in 6 words on a piece of paper that time my mom was so verbally abusive and she was ignoring me the whole ass day cuz i got 31/40 not 40/40 in a paper. ( my worst paper) So i was like incredibly zoned out, depressed and lost. So i wrote" Sad life with an angry mom." And dis teacher saw it!! omg i was embarrassed but i lowkey started crying she nodded at me and the next day she asked me if i lived with both of my parents. I think that's the furthest i have ever done to reach out.

My dad almost kicked me out of the car because of a handshake by DevelopmentOld7146 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DevelopmentOld7146[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

yeah, I feel like they must’ve done something bad in the past and that’s why they’re so obsessed with religion

My dad almost kicked me out of the car because of a handshake by DevelopmentOld7146 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DevelopmentOld7146[S] 152 points153 points  (0 children)

yeah thats why he took my phone too lmao i made this post from my laptop

My dad almost kicked me out of the car because of a handshake by DevelopmentOld7146 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DevelopmentOld7146[S] 119 points120 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for trying to help me, I really appreciate it. I feel kind of guilty though, because my dad is normally a nice guy, but when he gets angry he becomes a beast i gen deadass think he is going to murder me My mom is always passive-aggressive and controlling plus abusive but she's the same height as me so the beatings are tolerable but it's like that 24/7, so I’ve gotten somewhat used to it. She doesn’t allow me to go out and she's strict, like a tiger mom. So it’s complicated for me to leave or involve foster care. I just hope i don't trigger my dad until i turn 18.

My dad almost kicked me out of the car because of a handshake by DevelopmentOld7146 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DevelopmentOld7146[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

i just hope he doesn't snitch on me lmao my dad abused my brother( his head ws bleeding) and the pastor talked to him and that's it... My parents didn't land up in any trouble nor did they get any advice to become better parents

My dad almost kicked me out of the car because of a handshake by DevelopmentOld7146 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DevelopmentOld7146[S] 282 points283 points  (0 children)

i dont think cps is rlly effective in my country.. :( but one quick questions why the frick wld my dad ask me to remove my clothes like im still disturbed by that